I think if it's obvious that they are actually considering it (like the person lowkey likes them) but they just needs a push because there's just something holding them back, then the one asking for a response to their confession wouldn't really mind because they can change their mind by making their heart flutter (I don't know how else to describe it). I'm not good at explaining so I apologize if that was confusing. ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
i feel like you just gotta have a lot of resolve bc i know if i were in that situation, i would probably give up lmao like once they rejected me id be like "oh...okay...cool..." and never talk to them again oops maybe its different cuz zichen knows sitong likes him? idk i just know id get rlly discouraged after the nth rejection and just give up

I'mma ask a genuine question... If someone took this much time to think about ur feelings and said no again and again wouldn't it feel really bad