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Couldn’t agree more. Her situation is so sad. She’s literally been ostracized by everyone and the only person she could cling to was her husband who already wasn’t a man of words. He was so busy, he neglected her in a lot of ways. She was treated like a thing meant only to give an heir and tossed aside. Nobody cares for her, nobody tried to know her, locked away and nothing else to do she literally didn’t even realize she was depressed. This aggravated me and made me cry. In the end she and her son becomes victims of neglect and contempt.
I feel like they dont communicate enough....communication is key! Like I feel like the girl keep on saying best choice is cuz of the other guy who wanted to court her + her family too. Like she was attracted to the hu sband ( like you can tell from the flower scene , when they guy said he wrote the proposal and the dance scene), but the red shirt guy told her, that the husband choose her to stay neutral. Then she closed off her heart...like yea...idk how to explain it.... But I feel like she really did want tto marry he husband compared to the red clothing guy
After that when they got married, she got pregnant. She was happy but then she realized she was restricted in so many ways, like somehow it's all just the baby...no more her time or smth.... Then when she was pregnant she started feeling insecure, she had no one to talk to and then her dad collapsed, her mother can't spend time with her, then her husband also go to war....I feel like these insecurities will be lessen if she had a mother in law...but she doesn't have one...then the husband's side also treated her like an outsider which is why she cant rely on them....she was afraid that her husband will somehow leave her tooo...that why her only choice was to cling on ..him....cuz she doesn't have anyone left.but they didn't communicate much either...cuz the husband was bsy and stuff, how he was not a talker either.. Oh oh and the mood swings and stuff, she didn't know it was normal at the time...cuz no one experienced told her...so that's another plus to her insecurity.....like if I suddenly got angry or cry out of no where I would be scared too....
From the girl's family bg....I feel like the dad puts too much pressure on the girl.... She is also the type to do something... That's why she wanted to be involved in the household stuff....but yea she was pushed away cuz the husbando fam didn't like her much cuz of her fam bg....I feel like she would feel a bit better if she were to be involved in something....that why one way to escape were joining parties...cuz what else can she do
If her husband had told her, he actually loved her....I think she wont closed off either....she will realize that it was not because it was the best choice for both of em....but he actually wants her...