i was gonna make a comment about how i relate to kanaes extreme mood swings and anxiety at...

Allllix February 20, 2021 5:04 pm

i was gonna make a comment about how i relate to kanaes extreme mood swings and anxiety attacks over small things but it’s really concerning to see how many people in this comments blaming her for her very obvious extreme mental health problems. sure you can say “she should just change her attitude” but it’s not that fucking easy and she clearly can’t get therapeutic health because of her abusive home life. i agree that she has some undesirable qualities but as a whole i sympathize with her because i have gone through this shit and it’s 100x more difficult to experience it rather than being on the outside looking in. she strikes me as having borderline personality disorder which happens to be one of the most stigmatized disorders because of comments sections like this. kanae needs HELP. she is a broken person who is going through life being fueled by nothing but anxiety because she cares what other people think. she isn’t being selfish 24/7, she’s TERRIFIED that she’s going to mess everything up, hence why every interaction she has with other people has her in this mental loop of “i said something wrong they’re going to hate me oh god”. if you guys actually took any of this into consideration you wouldn’t just blindly say “i hate her because she freaks out about everything and she’s a leech” no, she has ATTACHMENT ISSUES because of the bullying/neglect at home! she’s got a dependency issue that isn’t being solved because she doesn’t have any REAL support and that’s why she uses hiroshi as a crutch; he makes her feel less shattered and makes her feel like she can be expressive without being looked down upon like with the other girls who imo are the actual antagonists of this story. idk. i feel bad for kanae even if you guys dont.

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    Belia February 21, 2021 11:13 am

    So you're gonna pretend she didn't instigated the gangr*pe.

    Disorder or not... What she did remains a crime. I don't understand wtf you don't see that.

    Belia February 21, 2021 11:22 am

    Yeah certainly intentionally leading the rape of you bully is excusable if you have mental health issues.

    Just so y'know that's sarcasm. Because mental issues and bullied doesn't excuse her from her actions.
    There have been mother's that killed they're children out of weak mental and have done during their extreme mood swings and very stress out situation of great fear. They're in jail.
    You're attitude towards her is the same of a parent being overprotective of someone that has this issues, being completely blind and forgiving when their actions already crossed a point of "excusable" in terms of common sense and civil society norms.
    Those kind of parents that sheltered the ill minded child so much they don't help it situation and her anxiety mental issues.

    KHAOS February 21, 2021 5:48 pm
    So you're gonna pretend she didn't instigated the gangr*pe.Disorder or not... What she did remains a crime. I don't understand wtf you don't see that. Belia

    alright, lets make one thing clear. NOBODYS FUCKING CLEARing HER FoR DOING THAT. Nobody said "oh wow, we shouldnt care about that" or is EXCUSING her actions because of her mental health. She should NEVER have done that but you can't also ignore her whole character because of that.

    KHAOS February 21, 2021 5:54 pm
    Yeah certainly intentionally leading the rape of you bully is excusable if you have mental health issues. Just so y'know that's sarcasm. Because mental issues and bullied doesn't excuse her from her actions. Th... Belia

    This comment makes no fucking sense and is so stupid. Nobody's sheltering her or excusing her actions. OP was talking about her mood swings and her characteristics. Y'all are acting like she can just change and its so easy for someone to just turn off all their issues. No that's not possible. You're incredibly immature for thinking that she is just either "good" or "bad", newflash, thats not how the world fucking works. She is a victim and a perpetrator. She needs to go to a fucking mental hospital.

    Allllix February 21, 2021 6:16 pm
    This comment makes no fucking sense and is so stupid. Nobody's sheltering her or excusing her actions. OP was talking about her mood swings and her characteristics. Y'all are acting like she can just change and... KHAOS

    THANK YOU FOR ACTUALLY READING WHAT I SAID. Where the hell did I justify her filming that gang rape??? Nowhere because I DIDNT. This bitch wants to fight with me so badly for no fucking reason.

    Allllix February 21, 2021 6:17 pm
    So you're gonna pretend she didn't instigated the gangr*pe.Disorder or not... What she did remains a crime. I don't understand wtf you don't see that. Belia

    Literally fuck you because I NEVER DEFENDED WHAT SHE DID.

    KHAOS February 21, 2021 6:22 pm
    THANK YOU FOR ACTUALLY READING WHAT I SAID. Where the hell did I justify her filming that gang rape??? Nowhere because I DIDNT. This bitch wants to fight with me so badly for no fucking reason. Allllix

    Of course. This bitch is literally commenting and arguing with everyone. And I also resonate with your comment. I resonate with Kanae-San a lot. I don't agree nor have done a lot of what she's done but I understand having such extreme anxiety and living in such a household. Interesting enough, I'm also being tested for BPD. You're comment had no ill-intentions and I recognized that. Sorry the other person is giving you shit.

    Minella March 3, 2021 1:03 am

    I could not have worded it better! The only thing I might add : there are no real antagonists in this story in my opinion. The Manga shows us well enough how each of the characters think, they all have a mental problem of some sort, and they all deal with it in their own way (often a shitty way, because they are teenagers left alone). There is no "good" or "bad" person, they are all trying to survive, they all act upon what they think will keep them safe socially. And they all seem under a great lot of stress because of that. It's a tragedy for each character.