Try to have this kind of mentality if you get cheated on
And she didn't get pregnant on her own, you know? You need a men to have a child and the guy had sex with her after knowing she was a minor, that is utterly messed up, jokingly he is a pedo, factually he is a criminal, legal age in the UK (I think is) 18.
HE as the responsible adult shouldn't maintain a potentially damaging relationship, don't come putting the blame of the dumb minor for going to a party when the other side shoud know right from wrong better, that is meesed up.
You are sounding like those people that blames the rape on the victim's clothes or actions
Yh she was minor but she consented to it women always say that u kmow we dnt make babies our slf ofc we dnt but if we consent to the sex its different, if i got cheated on hmm? Idnk i've never been in a relationship before but to me it rlly sounded like she wanted a reason to let him go haa to say i blame ppl for rape is little bit too much did i metion anything about rape or clother dame, oh my and yh she went to the party he left after finding out her age called again she answered did smebdy pressure her to answer it did he rape her no nne of that shit happened it just rlly felt like she was fed up of being married to me to says i sound like a person who offended rapists tf
Still minor, still knowingly and still against the law, the adult should be the one to stop and cut ties or wait for her to get older. That is right thing to do, "love" shouldn't be used as an excuse to be reckless
I said you sound like those that blames the victims for their unfortunate events, going to a party underage is better than being a legal adult and having sex with a minor, 7 years you junior! Their actions have very different weight in the legal AND moral aspect, basically he screwed up more than her, simple as that
Try to put yourself on the FL's shoes, the person who literally is half of your world allegedly cheated on you, you have no education, no contact outside family and 1 friend, your life revolves around being a housewife and mother because you had no other option after the children were conceived and born, she finally looked at the mirror and saw how unhappy both were, she has every right to confront the one mostly responsible for her situation, trying to solve the cheating issue with money won't really solve it, it may help but the fact that he did it opens the possibility of the situation repeating itself in the future.
Would you be able to trust a partner that cheated on you and came with excuses blaming you for the infidelity? That's what I meant for you to keep the same mentality if you get cheated on
Also... Am I misunderstanding what you mean with your writing? It's quite confusing the way you write...
Rachel seems like she was waiting for an excuse to devorce her husband bc she felt insecure about herself i swear that i though she was going to have an affair bc she wanted to feel less insecure i almost died the ml isnt bad though bc he doesnt rlly leave her and try to let her understand but she just pushes back all the misunderstandings on him,she got married seven yrs ago and the bby is a couple mnths old she should only blame the guy to make her nt have a normal collage life she went to the club on her own into his bed and all too but anyways thats nt the point the point is she couldve still went to skl he's rich get a nanny and go to skl (after the babies reached one or smthn) she can cme bk hme after class and take them then boom bby three cme and its nt like like she would have to het a joe but part times hello when the kids are at skl the nanny with bby #3 and finally bby #4 n #5 quit and be a wife bc most women get married at 24 or 25 geez they just made it all complicated and this guy he has a hme office tf his wife was worn out all the more reason to be hme ofc she would understand he has to work ah they made this all complicated and all but its kinda reality but she was a bad grl going out to a party lying about ur age bad grl