very well put!! I think a lot of the times people think a toxic relationship is always physical ab*se related but often it’s just relationships where you’re just hurting yourself and your partner without even meaning to but you can’t break up with them ://
Finally someone who understands their dynamics. IMO they both know their relationship is toxic but like what you said, all those sacrifices will feel worthless that's why they're procrastinating. It's as if they're waiting who will raise the white flag first. I've seen many toxic relationships like this and it's always easy for us outsiders to say "omg just break up!!" but it's easier said than done. I love how realistic the author portrayed this. It's pretty easy to see the best solution but humans love to complicate things ╮(￣▽￣)╭
i wish we could like replies because both of you made such great points !! it was kinda disheartening seeing so many comments soley blaming in suh for their relationship problens, like i get hes not a great guy but a relationship goes both ways and yool is doing some damage too. its more complicated than it seems and im actually pretty invested to see how the author wraps their relationship up and if we'll get to see them healing after breaking up since thats such an important part of leaving a toxic relationship
looks like in suh wants to break up but yool is avoiding it :// i kinda get it though - they've been in this relationship for years and yool even sacrificed what he loved for in suh. if they break up, its like all of it was for nothing and his dad was right. its more comfortable to just stay in this relationship than to face the reality that he made a bad choice. but they rlly need to talk and break up, this relationship is only making both of them miserable. hopefully they can go their separate ways and work on healing the wounds this relationship caused