a true narcissist

Sorry ment to dislike

first...why are you sorry?

second...i would really like to know why anyone decided to dislike my comment. not because you cannot. i just would like to know why as i am curious what you thought when reading it :)

He’s not an actual narcissist. It’s like when characters go “this guy is a psychopath!” because the character is cold blooded or said/did something creepy or whatever. It’s not that they’re clinically diagnosed with it, it’s popular language.

Though the morals of it is arguable, that wasn’t the point of your comment (some people will say that it’s not right to compare neurotypical people’s negative behaviour with people who have disorders and others will disagree and say that it’s not insulting or misleading)

Also it is arguable to say that a narcissist cannot be involved with romance. We just never know about people’s circumstances, just like psychopath isn’t necessarily a murderer. They’re just people who, because they clinically cannot grasp moral norms, are more at risk of becoming dangerous.

Aah thanks. I didn`t read this yet. Just from the synopsis as well as the comments here is what I based my comment on. I read so many stuffs where they used characters like narcissist or psychopath or sociopath and romanticised it. I am not saying that all people on the spectrum cannot be romantically involved. But you seem to know quiet something about a person that does not just have symptoms but is a true narcissist. Someone that can get some relieve through theraphy, but is not really able to adapt normaly anymore. It is not their fault for becoming one. No one is at fault for being made into a sociopath or narcissit because of your fucked up childhood. And psychopaths are not at fault for being born that way either. I am just saying, that it sounded like this was gonna be some kinda magical character development thing without showing the depths and troubles and all over complexity and toxidity a relationship with a narcissist would most likely have. A narcissist can be romantic, even in love, but it will not be an unproblematic one. Not very likely. As they would not be a narcissist if it were that way. A person with light symptoms and treatment could though...I know many that never had it, don`t even know they are one and go around fucking up peoples lives and acting like the world tries to make everything their fault :D Anyway..I will have a read. Thanks for the reply

No worries!
Also don’t worry, the two main characters are actually absolute sweethearts, the narcissist part is easily forgotten a few chapters in hahaha

haha yeah i read it. i even spit from laughter sometimes about these antics. i can see how annoying it canb if someone seems to put words in your mouth andjust ignore what you say...a narcissistic behaviour indeed..but it was funny haha...i am a bit torn about the reactions people have on the black haired glasses guy and the orange dude though...

Like how they’re mad at black haired dude being exaggeratedly angry or orange guy’s dumminess?
Personally I don’t wanna jump the guns and imma wait for the flashbacks and more background info to see if his anger is rational or just wayyy too much. Black haired dude gives me some eh vibes since he’s presented mostly as an angry loner but we’ll see!