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That's you thinking black and white. The act itself are both consensual, but the reason of the uke is different from the other.
He might/would face consequences at the end (since their is casualties involve, that's resulting to baby) , but my point is not pertaining to rape but to see beyond reason, and to some who keeps on trash talking. That's all, you can give your input in a way that won't degrade one's character.

Yo, despite the selfish act of the uke. You have to consider his actions. Instead of trash talking him. What he really need is a great dose of therapy. He was abused probably since a kid and in need of dire love. What he did was wrong but when it comes to abuse victims remember there's a gray line between black and white.
He's a good guy, considering his demeanor and actions. He didn't go ballistic nor psychotic commonly what happens to abused victims. So yeah, I'll give him a chance. Sometimes it bring down the mood when people can trashtalk like there's no tomorrow.