
lol but ur trust issues are yours alone. if you need to do you and just cant deal eith being with another person atm thats fine- take the time for you. but flippantly trying to tramautize somebody else because u have issues is messed uuuuuuuup and weird. whoever you like cant read your mind or know your past. unless you've had a convo with that person about your issues and fears, why would you think they deserve your bad behaviour?

how did he try to traumatize the other guy..? and yes I agree w the fact that ppl cant read others minds but in the beginning the wolf was aggressively declining the offer of friendship of the other guy and that's already a signal. what bad behavior? if you mean in the beginning he was brutally honest and yes that was quite mean, but other than that, after reading, my thought is that that's just his personality.

People are focusing so much on the seme's words, but not giving same thought to why he says it, it seems. The coyote proves that his 'trust issues' aren't just his alone-- there are real world consequences for him just even existing, so his way of protecting himself (however mean as it may sound) is valid.

fair enough. i view the wolf thing similarly to being pretty. like there are more benefits thrown your way and life tends to be generally easier when your pretty/handsome. yes, you can't initially tell who is only in to u because of it. why make life insanely harder for yourself and completely shut down when it doesn't make you happy or fulfilled. yh being a what he is has perks and drawbacks he'd rather not deal with, but it's just not that deep *shrugs* people are fr getting hurt and killed for being a certain way, and he's choosing to feel hurt when no one (until the cayote) was even coming for him smdh
your 'precious cat' he is pretty much average (that's why I like him tbh) and why is the wolf so mean? well because he was hurt before. he was misunderstood and 'used' in that kind of concept, so he has every right to have trust issues. and trust issues + uke avoiding him = ...well then wtf do you expect? if you expect the seme to just be like 'I'm sO iN lOvE w yOu thAt AllL mY tRuSt iSsUes Are gOne'? then you're delusional. don't put all the fault to the seme, give the uke some credit too <3