my opinion

i think ibelin shows a pretty realistic effect here, she's used to being loved and received affection from everyone and when arwin's affection stop she feel jealousy, envy cause this is the first time she's experiencing this, she's naive if i should say, she don't know how to handle these new feelings (jealousy, envy, etc). in conclusion so far i don't hate ibelin, i mean i don't particularly like her but i don't dislike her to the point where i hate her. except if author will make ibelin let her ego take over and made her do evil shit to latte i'll hate her.