The fuck... no one can be as naive as that... I don't like that uke... Edit: So it seems ...

he isnt naive

That's how they justified it in the comments... :p

Well sometimes you do what you can do. Sex is a complicated topic, and it can be easier sometimes to try stuff you’re worried about with a person for who it will have no consequences whatsoever and won’t judge you for how inexperienced you are, rather than someone you have feeling for which just add on the stress and anxiety.
I guess it depends of people, but sometimes just being attracted physically is enough, and easier.

Lol, that's where you see the difference in culture or mentalities... or I don't know how you call it. ^^'
Well, if it's like that I will answer by saying, the person I will trust the most for that would be my lover. Why would your lover judge you???? I mean, I won't choose to be with someone just for sex, and I don't want someone to be with me just for sex.
Also, I feel that being inexperienced and such is more of a man's worries. (in an heterosexual relationship) :p

That’s assuming the person you have feelings for is your lover tho XD sometimes things aren’t that easy lol and that is you, but some people are just very insecure about sex, women or men tbh, or sometimes you’re just curious about a thing you wanna try but without any consequences ‘cause you’re not ready or don’t want to commit. Being in a relationship is an everyday effort and a mental strain sometimes. Sometimes you just wanna have fun or check something for yourself without all the emotional bagage.
(And I don’t think it’s a cultural thing more than a personality/sexual preference thing.)

Lol, you should travel more. You see all the arabic and muslim countries where women must stay virgin till marriage... x)
Of course, everyone won't follow that, but there, people think that that's the norm. So it's more than just a sexuality or sexual preference. ^^

That’s not their choices tho, more like something imposed upon them because of society and/or religion, doesn’t mean it reflect their point of vue on the subject (and I’m saying it as someone who actually traveled a lot and met with many Muslim women that left their countries for various reason and became part of the association I was helping)
But like, sure, your environment obviously influence your point of vue on the matter, it’s not like your culture has zero consequences, yet anyone of any culture can tell you if they themselves need to have feelings to have sex with a person of if physical attraction is enough for them (and spoiler, for many people, physical attraction is enough)

But anyway’ we digressed a lot X’D originally I was just explaining why people would do something like the uke and that it’s a lot more normal than what it seems.

That's why I brought up all that x))
For me it doesn't seem "normal" because I am muslim and i was brought up in a muslim country.
With all that, this is my choice, and I am convinced. (My mother wasn't even muslim, she is russian>communism>atheism) So I'm not following blindly.
Also, the reality is so. My reality is so. The society I live in works that way, so I do my best to integrate. I don't feel that I'm loosing anything or that I am forced. I am just accepting reality. That's just the game. x)))
And obviously this subject needs more development, which we can't obviously do here.
That's why I said, "culture" and "mentality". It's the difference between me and you. we can't discuss that in just a few words.
Also, although I say a muslim country, it's the maghreb, so we have it more easy than the arabic countries of the east. Thank god. :ppp