THROW AWAY THAT BASTARD DUUUUKE AND THE WHOLE MANSION THAT LOOK AT YOU AS BIRTH CONVEYER, ...

Actually, i reaaaally think, that you are just do not want to ad m.j it that duke did not tried understanding her. Bc, no arguments were said on duke's even one action of trying to trully understand her without just appeasing her

I’ve said at least twice that neither of them fully tried to understand each other hence the miscommunication between the two, from what we saw so far she not once till this new life tried to tell him how she was feeling, what was happening nor why she wanted to go to the parties or basically anything tbh and that’s on her he literally meet her once then again and the two got married he didn’t know her and she just knew he was the son of a duke Her “best choice” He didn’t know her and didn’t understand her since he wasn’t around women to be able to just tell those things from a glance. Could he have tried harder yes maybe he could have but I have to understand he was dealing with things of his own his father dying, becoming duke, war, coming back to other family trying to take over we don’t know his side fully at all! All we’ve seen is mainly about her, as for her partying and him taking away her involvement in their son I think it was a bit harsh but I can understand. At that point when he did that she was already becoming distant from her son and no longer caring for him it doesn’t matter if there’s a nanny at home or a house full of ppl that’s her son but it is common in that era to have them care for the child. When the son was born she did take care of him for a bit then suddenly stopped if that was ur wife wouldn’t u think that was strange and ask why do u wanna eat/dance and spend time with these ppl At parties but not ur own child?? He did actually question her she could have told him why, been truthful about her feeling and didn’t! So yes he took away her involvement with their son and she let him ;-; She could have said no but she didn’t, she could have not gone but she did she decided to let her some go he didn’t force her too and let’s not forget that it was shown that she was not an Entirely nice mother either. She came back thinking her marriage was fine but it wasn’t and she’s seeing that so here’s to hoping that they both work together to understand each other and clear up their many mistakes

And it’s not that I don’t like her I just need to see more of their past instead of just supporting her and being on “her side” I want to be able to support them all

the only person who should have to understand her can be her mother, her sister, her brother, or her father who see her grow up
on cp 25 the ml understand what responsibility she has but he was not capable of solving the problem when the ml asked the fl: please tell me what you want me to do, and what you want.
she replays I don't want anything
he makes some mistake but in that ERA he tries to remove all the thing that will make her feel more pressured, but that was not the solution
we that are reading know the solution but is not easy
she was looking for love, going on a date with the ml , taking care of the ml with the ml.
she was not prepared for such a thing

the depression is caused by depression postpartum
and how she was raised
and the situation with the ml worsened the thing
sorry but when u can't explaining yourself but pretend other to understand you, you are asking too much
the ml asked: please tell me what you want me to do and what you want
she didn't know how to reply she says: I don't want anything
is not easy to know the right thing to do for a depressing person

thank's for the comment

His ignorance is due to her not being able to express. No one can help you if you can't reach out. Its the same then. And its the same now. And also the times have changed. Arranged marriages and parents marrying off their kids was very normal.

You are talking as if she ever tried to understand him. She was always in her her own shell of depression that she never even tried to understand Harshen. As I said its both of their faults.