I think another issue is that he had his ex gf cheat on him on him before. Then he finds out that Ren would go after people in relationships in the past. I reckon him lying and doing that shocked him
Wait did he slut shamed? He just said "he's that type of person after all" which can also be interpreted as he's a player whos like his two timing ex. Was the translation changed?
The slut-shaming was more about the guy who brought up his past he had a negative view of the uke. I feel all parties had some blame in the negative outcome
people can date whomever they want not date someone for any reason they. if kichi did not want to date ren because of his past, there would be nothing wrong with that either. there are plenty of women out there who avoid dating playboys, nothing wrong with that.
While I do agree that people can date whomever they want, granted that it's by mutual consent. I never said it was wrong for them to date, just that their lack of communication and honesty lead to some pain and misunderstandings. And that I felt they were both to blame for the situation in their relationship (third parties aside).
While it's not good to lie or avoid talking about your past with your partner, it's also not right to not talk about having faith or rather trust in your partner when you find out their past (slut shaming aside). Idk this whole situation just felt wrong on both their sides.