
"the gays" doesn't include everyone. i'm gay and i'm fine w it lol. also don't form your opinions based off of tik tok comments. do your own research and come to a conclusion. i don't consider it "fetishizing" either when the people in question are literally fucking/making porn/engaging in sexual acts. the definition of fetishizing is to make something the object of a sexual fetish, you can't make it a sexual fetish if it was already sexual to begin with. it's fetishizing when you, for example, see a gay couple in the street and you start asking them about their bedroom habits or making them explicitly sexual when they're not already engaging in it.
So I was reading this yaoi manga and everyone was debating why it’s weird for a girl to get horny seeing gay guys do it. Yet why is it not considered weird when guys get horny seeing two lesbians together.