
Very brave of you to assume I stand with the point I made lol also idc if you support the artists/authors or not but I'm sure you're not supporting EVERY artists/authors you read to the fullest extend they deserve. Go feel good about the things you think you're doing good on/for and stop telling people what they should or should not say on a pirated site, Holy Mary

The emotions of this conversation had lead my intentions astray. What I meant to convey was that this is a fictional story, the original commenter only wanted to know a plot mechanism. They're not even asking a gay couple in real life who the bottom is. If they do that in real life, I'll may be on your side and lecture them. Actually, I think they'll also be on your side about this.
However, I do not think that they have that intention at all (to go ask a gay couple in real life who is the bottom). You're policying a situation that doesn't need you to. While you think that asking plot mechanisms may lead this person or people like this person to go out into the world and ask gay people who is bottom, I think you're gravely incorrect.
If the original commenter (or others) may please back me up on this, that'll be greatly appreciated. I know you're only asking for a plot mechanism and do not intend to go to gay couples in real life and ask who is bottom like that commenter who maliciously misjudge you and tried to create a self fulfilling prophecy against you.

Yeah, exactly why i just reply what i know, it really didn't feel like a fetish, it was a bit harsh to attack the commenter about, it's normal as asking the plot, but i really didn't know how to prove my point so i just replied what i know.
My brother also has a boyfriend we don't ask him those things at all, we wouldn't want to offend him in anyway.
Please tell me jin gone be the bottom