
I understand like we want the main couple but in the sense of how she would become a second wife I'd prefer her to move on but remember in culture, her virginity was taken by him though by accident, in those times it's your duty to take care of them kinda, they can become a second wife or concubine.

No, they actually didn't have intercourse at that time. The elf queen(not good with names) can testify for that. She probably just didn't care enough to clarify it and no one asked her to. If you go back to that chapter I'm sure that they only slept that's it.
If it did happen, i'm still kinda against her marrying Luo Zheng because she's annoying, she didn't take the child's feelings into consideration in the previous chapters and I just think she's too obsessed with the mc.
Nonetheless, this is just my opinion, so if we have different opinions please don't come after me.

Does it even matter ? There are obviously purple girls who entertain a rather free life, and does a person or their feelings change after having sex ? Certainly not !
- for a starter there no « biological « virginity, it’s purely conceptual and controlling myth, so there’s nothing like « taking « there it is also impossible to prove - (yes you can even have an hymen after giving birth, or lose it from mundane sport without any penetration - and that’s what medical science say)
In any case
That guy is an absolute jerk when it comes to relationships, his new found inters for stupid blondy is as disgusting as him forgetting his wife and child

I do agree, but tbh i hate her more that I hate Luo Zheng. Yes, I also hate him for being a super irresponsible father and husband, I did not like it when he said he was gonna marry her because I'm pretty sure he promised to fl(not good with names) that he would only love her for life. He broke his promise and now it looks like there's gonna be another girl.
I'm just gonna say that I didn't sign up for this and I don't want a harem, I just want him to be loyal to fl and to be a good role model for his son, but this ain't it for me. I'm still gonna read future chapters and hope that he will have a good character development because that's honestly what i'm hoping for.

Idk about others but if a guy takes another girl as a wife even if it doesn't say harem, it basically is for me, because even if they say that the head wife is the one who has all authority, it doesn't change the fact that he took another girl in or that he married another girl besides the head wife
That's just my opinion tho, and since you said that, I don't have much hope now that he will change.
I won't judge him for loving someone, but you can at least inform the other party about this, and if they agree ok, that's your business not mine. I just don't like the fact that he tolerates the bad behavior that she exhibits in front of the child without consideration for the child. Even if he's not her child that's no excuse. What i'm trying to say is, I just don't really like her behavior and how the mc is dealing with this stuff overall.

Tbh she's behaving like any other type of woman that is in love with a man of his caliber. The head wife knows their situation and is visibly jealous but the woman of the purple realm legit knows her boundaries. Respect her for that, she always looks after the dragon and keeps her distance from his wife but still, if he chooses to marry her or keep her as a second wife it is not even strange in that world plus it's beneficial, to have 2 strong women at his side.

Of you put it like that, I agree with you, but as I've previously said, I'm just not a fan of harem overall.
If you like it or is neutral about it then I respect your opinion.
I just really don't like the idea of having multiple lovers at once and I believe that conflict will happen in that sort of relationship and will bring unnecessary trouble, but then again that's just my opinion. Ik harem can also bring benefits but I just don't really like it for multiple reasons including the ones that I've stated repeatedly.
HAHAHHAHAHA the bitch can't help staring to the embodiment of a real couple