Just bc people are into bdsm, it doesn’t mean that it’s always toxic. If you think about it, bc bdsm is dangerous consent and communication is always key to their relationships whether there is emotions involved or not. I would say bdsm partnerships have more trust between those two people than most normal/vanilla relationships do.
Points of three is another great bdsm story. You’d like it
The first part is pretty nasty though
Meh. I still like it bc there were clear boundaries. Consent and communication still took priority. It’s an amazing example of what a healthy bdsm lifestyle should be like
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The fact the seme planned all this to trap the uke was disgusting. Too many lies. Second couple was more honest.
"Even with"? You make it sound like it's a sickness. It's a kink and this is shown in a lot more healthy, positive light than most authors that do not do research on the topic
Ah. This is why I had a problem with their comment. You stated it perfectly.
hi! i never said that lol. i was referring to that in yaoi, bdsm relationships are typically toxic. thank you for your input though!
hi! i should have clarified what i meant. i was not referring to rl bdsm, i meant yaoi bdsm. in yaoi, it’s typically toxic. thank you for your input though!
i’ve read it! it was really good
the last part of your comment was what i was referring to
yea! an example of how in yaoi, bdsm usually has a very toxic back story/romantic relationship outside of it
True enough. I am just I guess a bit defensive since I am a Dom, and how most bdsm relationships are depicted are nowhere close to how it truly is (here in yaoi land). There are some aspects missing, but this is by far, much closer to a healthy true give and take bdsm relationship. Btw thank you for clarifying
yea but they sorted it out healthily. and Its been a while since I've read it but I'm pretty sure that if the uke didn't want to have sex he wouldn't have kept going.
being a purely physical relationship and clear boundaries and consent. when the uke pulled away, the seme let him. and then they sorted out whatever issues there were and everything was clear.
no problem! i completely understand LMAO i’m a switch. next time i will specify first. thank you
why are they so cute??! even with the bdsm, they have such a healthy relationship (⌒▽⌒)