
I'm not downplaying what the FL had to go through. What I want to say is that isn't the reason she came back in time is for her to be given another chance to be a good mother to Vicente and fix her relationship with her husband which she doesn't even know was broken as well. So why dwell on the past and bring it up every time? and why run away from her problems again when she can confront them head-on. She has the ML wrapped around her fingers even if she's not aware of that.

You're absolutely downplaying the FL... As an outsider you make it sound so EASY to problem solve an issue from a 3rd person perspective.
But for people who have had depression and anxiety for a long time, their way of thinking is much more narrow and complicated. It's way more realistic that she's trying to put a band-aid on an issue while not actually knowing how to solve it, and that's not really her fault. She hasn't really had the kind of upbringing, experience. or guidance from others, she can only do what she knows how to do. She literally only went back a mere 3 years in time.
3 years doesn't magically alter your personality into being a straight-forward genius problem solver.
She's only NOW getting reassurance from other characters.

she’s not aware of that because the ml doesn’t show it to her so ofc she wont try to talk when she thinks the ml doesn’t truly love her. also she came back solely for her son. in the previous life she was okay with her husband because she never confronted any of the problems. but in this life because she’s confronting the problems she’s at odds with her husband. she’s not a mind reader. he sent in a marriage request after meeting her once and hasn’t really ever been romantic with her at all. throw in abandoning her for months when she was pregnant ofc she’s gonna feel like the ml doesn’t truly care for her. and when she does try to confront them it’s the ml who’s bringing up her past behavior. she’s trying to change for her son and wants to get involved in his life but when she did he tells her to go back to being an absentee mother like before... Not to mention the ml and the ml’s workers don’t let her participate in the house at all. even if she tries they shut her down like she isn’t a part of their family. yknow the phrase "video or it didn’t happen"? that’s because ppl need to see it to believe it. And the ML hasn’t shown her anything as of yet. i’m not talking about doing good things behind her back. he needs to do sth obvious. and see the effort she’s making for their son and not jump down her throat for trying. i think the fl should believe in the ml but ml should also give her something to believe in.
Ugh second lead syndrome really got me in this one.... I can’t believe the ML would leave her alone and reduce her to a useless woman just because of post partum depression.... does he even love her?