Imagine u was in a relationship and people say that ur not good enough for that person plus being raped because of. The use has a traumatic experience and insecurities
I've read plenty of "sacrificing yourself for your beloved" plots and this one is the worst I've ever read. Why? If you look closely, the uke hurt him in every aspect. Like, other "raped", "traumatized", "messed up", 'insecured", "sacrificing" type of uke's digging his own grave and push the seme away from the pit while this uke carelessly pulls the seme along. Other uke (from the same type) handle things more wisely. They didn't hurt the seme this much they only do it when they see it necessary, actually once is enough! But this uke "unnecessarily" keeps hurting the seme over and over. In other words, he could have used a better tactic to push the seme away for his own good that will hurt him less! And not over and over like this!
Admit it, this uke messed up A LOT. I know that this kind of drama is inevitable for the uke to hurt the seme but most of them is unnecessary, and unnecessarily too many times.
Hmmm yes I do agree with you that he messed up a lot but I don’t blame everything on him
I guess that we have different opinions on how we view things and I respect ur view
Thank u for giving more information and think about this stuff more deeply
Sorry if my opinion offended u
No no I won't blame everything on him! Of course the uke being like this, Takei is the cause! It's just I feel bad for the seme, he's done nothing wrong, he's so nice to the uke (that he even never cause any misunderstanding which is very rare for the seme to not cause it ). It's just that the uke's logic is to weird. Like, ok I understand you think you don't deserve him but come on, find better excuses!
By the way, thank you so much for respecting my opinion. You're very kind
too*
Yes at least we both agree that takei’s fault
Also of course everyone has their right to their own opinion
The uke was raped ...its hard for him to feel worthy of the seme..try to put yourself in his shoes
He literally feels like he's not good enough which is why he tried to "set the seme free"
You don't get my point at all. What I say is it's pretty normal for the uke to push the seme away in this kind of plot which I'VE READ PLENTY. But the method he use is bad. Other traumatized uke has better method to hurt the seme less and they didn't do it back and forth like this uke.
Sorry if I offended you with my post...I was just stating from my opinion and what I thought...but this is my first timereading a bl with an uke that's like that
So I didn't really know what to think of it
But I understand what you are saying and I'm looking at it in a different light now so thanks for your explanation.
*READ THE EDIT BEFORE DISAGREEING WITH ME*
Seems like I'm not the only one who think the uke messed up a lot. He unnecessarily hurts the seme. Poor seme. But Takei is the real ass.
Edit: I don't know where are the replies go then I'll explain it here. My point isn't blaming the rape victim. My point is I'VE READ PLENTY OF "RAPED", "TRAUMATIZED", "INSECURED", "MESSED UP" UKE, YET THIS UKE FUCKED UP THE MOST. This story isn't the first to have this kind of uke. But when I said the uke messed up, I'M TALKING ABOUT HOW THE UKE HANDLE THE SITUATION AND THE WAY HE PUSH THE SEME AWAY.
I've seen plenty of traumatized mc (whether uke or seme) which is PRETTY NORMAL to push the other party away. BUT the other "traumatized" uke handle it more wisely, by using less painful way to push the seme away and they usually did it once (once is enough!!). BUT this uke has so many weird & unnecessary excuses and he unnessarily hurt the seme TOO MANY TIMES. The seme is a sweetheart, to good he even never causes any misunderstanding (which is super rare for a seme). I could understand the reason why the uke want to push the seme away AND I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT!! The part that annoy me is THE WAY HE DID IT, GOT IT??
I hope no one would come to me and say stuffs like hey, he's traumatized, he's raped, he's insecure blah blah blah oh he's not the first traumatized uke I've read, trust me but he's the one who messed up the most compare to other uke from the same kind.
P.S. Can we agree that the one who cause the uke to be this "messed up" is Takei? I'm saying it again, I don't blame the reason he push the seme away. I'm annoyed by the way he did it which I see other uke do it better. You can say because he's traumatized, he's blah blah blah, yes, that even proves my point that the uke REALLY MESSED UP A LOT which is super obvious, thank you.