What would you do?

Not_0kay March 11, 2021 11:42 pm

What would you do if you and your friend, ( Lets just say that your friend is a girl) and you both look okay. She is ( lets say .. blonde) blonde and has pimples and you have brown hair and pimples with glasses. You guys are besties, and talk about anime, hot boys, and other stuff. But in 7th grade, she moves away. So you live on your life as normal. BUt in high schoool, you see her again. But she has no more pimples and she is really hot. So you go say hi, and she goes and says hi. Luckly, you guys still love anime and manwha or manhua, or manga but has many new friends. She talks about anime, but cooly. WHen you talk about it, you look like trash. What would you do? ( Totally not based on a real life experience)

Responses
    Mind Circus March 11, 2021 11:49 pm

    I don't know, really. Maybe it would be best to leave her behind. Still be friends but Move on from being best friends. Friends from high school or middle school are most likely not going to last. I guess, make up your mind and settle with the idea of a new best friend(or if your friendship works out and you stay friends, then try and revive the relationship, but only if you both make efforts to hold a relationship)

    Not_0kay March 11, 2021 11:53 pm
    I don't know, really. Maybe it would be best to leave her behind. Still be friends but Move on from being best friends. Friends from high school or middle school are most likely not going to last. I guess, make... Mind Circus

    Oh thank you. BUt she is still nice and all. I'll try to revive the friendship. Im thinking of maybe reviving the friendship. Although, I don't liker her friend so maybe I'll try to convince her thanks for the advice.

    Lilith March 11, 2021 11:54 pm

    Honestly, if you guys are still friends then it shouldn't matter but if she acts like she's all popular and important then just either ignore her or get hot or something. I would just ignore her because I mind my own business and don't want any trouble. If she's cool while talking about anime and you're not then that must mean she popular and if you curse at her or get jealous then all the people who like her are just gonna hate you. Rather talk to her about it than just act on your own.

    Lilith March 11, 2021 11:55 pm

    And make some new friends if she acts like a bitch

    Not_0kay March 11, 2021 11:57 pm
    I don't know, really. Maybe it would be best to leave her behind. Still be friends but Move on from being best friends. Friends from high school or middle school are most likely not going to last. I guess, make... Mind Circus

    I mean, she is not my only friend. BUt they aren't a weeb so its kinda uncomfortable to talk to them

    Not_0kay March 11, 2021 11:58 pm

    How do you turn your friend into a weeb? I mean my friend's friend is also a weeb and she talks about how scary tokyo ghoul so...

    pooh bear March 11, 2021 11:59 pm

    date her

    Not_0kay March 12, 2021 12:00 am
    date her pooh bear

    Well I don't know about that lol

    FluffyAlpacasRFluffy March 12, 2021 12:02 am

    Something like this happened with my middle school best friend and I. They ended up moving schools and getting a total glow up. They also started kissing up to the popular people and changing themselves to "look cool and all." I ended up pulling them aside and telling them straight "you've changed, this is how you've changed, I don't really like this side of you. Do what you will with that statement." They were kind of shocked when I said it becuase they didn't realize what they were doing. We took some time apart and were able to become friends again. They stopped trying to kiss up to people, but their personality changed a biy. I tried to keep and open mind and learn more instead of trying to close off and change then back. They taught be many new things becuase we had changed. Hope this helps ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    Not_0kay March 12, 2021 12:05 am
    Something like this happened with my middle school best friend and I. They ended up moving schools and getting a total glow up. They also started kissing up to the popular people and changing themselves to "lo... FluffyAlpacasRFluffy

    Hmm I see.THank you. I'll tell her that too. But for her there isn't a major issue with personality just with her friends so Imma say that tooo.