he wasn’t forced to have the child they made an agreement so he can have lots of money after he gave birth. But he end up having feeling for dojin without even realizing it and the end of the chapter Hyesung is happy to be with dojin (that is gonna post soon) I just want to correct that info that Hyesung wasn’t forced and ppl are also forgetting that it takes two to make a baby so if Dojin wanted that baby he has the right to keep him while Hyesung can leave and take the money. I’m not saying that is bad either. But the rest about right I don’t hate Hyesung because he experienced so much. I also do not hate Dojin either idk why ppl are trying to hate Hyesung. But I can’t argue with them
Because it is their opinion on not liking a character what frustrates me is that if they don’t like these characters then why continue to read it ?? Idk ppl do have the right to have their opinions that why I stop arguing for those ppl hating on any of the characters.
Um he was technically forced to have a child cause he got raped and then guilt tripped to have the child. He did leave byul with dojin but after seeing byul again he decided to settle down and be with them again. Just because ur happy doesn’t mean you can just erase your trauma. I just listed his traumas that are shown in the story, I never said they weren’t happy.
I wasn’t talking about erase the trauma. He didn’t guilt trip Hyesung . Dojin does have feelings for hyesung he wanted to see if he change his feelings to fall for dojin that’s why he agreed the agreement that hyesung made to keep the baby. Dojin wasn’t lying when he said “itˋs my baby too” because it is true - it takes two to make a baby and if the mother doesn’t want the baby and the father does, then then father has every right to keep the baby the mother can leave if she wants she has every right to. But if both parents agree they don’t want the baby then that’s on them to abort the baby.
Here it is and there is no guilt trip at all in this chapter.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_is_an_illusion/uu/love_is_an_illusion-chapter-20/1/
Here is the chapter of their agreement . It was hyseung that proposed the agreement
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_is_an_illusion/uu/love_is_an_illusion-chapter-21/1/
I wasn’t talking about erase trauma. I know it’s hard not to erase at least from my own experience as long nothing triggers it u will be fine. Hyseung case his trigger are his parents. He did the right move whenever the last chapter will be upload. He will mention how he is fine what he has now too. I read the lasted chapter. I hope ppl can just leave dojin and hyseung alone. I love both of these characters and the other characters too. I love them all. Hyseung never annoyed me . I feel okay around dojin because I read way worst character than dojin. I love them all. I’m just only correcting the part that there was no force at all with hyseung keeping the baby.
I kinda worded that wrong since I didn’t know what to other words to use, but he clearly didn’t want a child....if he did then he wouldn’t have run away or freaked out so much. And he could’ve easily aborted it but after dojin’s request and the later agreement they kept it. And the other thing is, if someone clearly didn’t want the child and u said u would give them money/leave u alone, why do look after them so much. He literally searched for this manz after he ran away, he clearly did his part of the deal, to give birth to the child. Also he was constantly shamed for the not taking care of byul or for leaving him. This all felt like he was forced to submit to give birth/take care of a child. Oh well whatever happened already happened and I’m happy he’s doing well now.
You look too deep into this, hyseung didn’t say he wanted the baby. He was just scared to even have the baby. Again I re read this so I can say this correctly, I told you they had a moment before they gave birth. He ran away because he thought dojin was gonna push the responsibility to hyseung but that end up being a misunderstanding. After he ran away he even thought dojin gave up the baby to someone because the lies that heesoo created. Dojin search for him because he wanted to talk to Hyseung about working together to raised their baby together and that he was gonna help him. He really cared for him. (I agree that dojin is not perfect either he also have his wrongs too) Hyesung felt guilty because he didn’t want to become like his mom , like his own mom left him and that´s why he felt this shame he didn’t want to become his mom this is why I respect him so much because now that he gave birth and want to really take care of byul he change his way and move forward. Hyseung was just scared, he is new as an omega. He was an alpha all his years and this whole omega thing hasn’t sink into him. Same with dojin who doesn’t know how to fucken care omegas because he use to hate omegas in the beginning of the story. This is all new to them. That´s why their relationship is not so perfect. So again it wasn’t forced. But it’s whatever now. I already said my input and we won’t agree to this now. Fine see it as force then.
First he gets abandoned by his father, then has to work multiple jobs, then gets raped, then is forced to have a child he didn’t want, but just when he’s started to accept things and live a happy comfortable life, his dad comes back and brings up old trauma. Even worse that everyone is calling him a bad father to byul..y’all don’t understand the struggles of a parent. Parents have their own problems and when it gets too much THEY ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE BREAKS. Sure it may seem unfair to the kid but it’s even more unfair to the parent. Like just let this man have a little moment to himself instead of having to care for a child while being in a mentally ill state because him being depressed will affect the child even more when hes forcing himself to take care of him.