Ok but you do realize the yaois with no consent and rape is a kink people have and like to read becuase the real life play that is exhibited in this yaoi is great but they want a place where they can see their fantasies so that’s what yaoi does and I’m glad you enjoy this yaoi though I’m sure there are more like it
I do in fact realise that actually, but the difference with that is that when it's a kink in real life partners can act out a non consensual experience a fantasy with a CONSENTING partner and it's fine, very common in fact. It's even a way for some sexual abuse victims take back control of the aituation in a safe consenting environment.
But a lot of BL series are the very definition of abusive and as someone who has been sexually assaulted in real life and has seen people be influenced by kinks and fantasies they get from abusive series and act on them maliciously in real life for their own pleasure, I can't really stand by it. In no way did I ever say you can't read that stuff though, I said I need more of this positive energy in my life, not anyone else
honestly I can't get enough of this series, and ethan is mainly to thank for that. A dom/seme who doesn't straight up ignore, abuse, and r*pe/assault his sub/uke? And is able to practice some good ol' kinky fuckery all while actively practicing consent and patience? I need more of this positive energy in my life.
Also, y'all in the comments are sweet and wholesome and I love it here~