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I agree with that AND it’s imperative to find some intermediate. Idk what the word would be, but there are a couple people in my life I can’t forgive ever. But idk how you hold onto that without actively hurting yourself too. Maybe like, I don’t forgive what you did to me, but l’m learning how to accept that it did happen and not let it define or hold me victim anymore.
It's not easy, but eventually, everything will fall into their right places. You may be still hurting as of now, but sooner or later you'll see your past as something you finally overcome and what made YOU a much BETTER PERSON. Thank you for being strong!
I love how the ending of this side story tells us that "happy ending" is not all about forgiving and forgetting all the bad thing happened in the past. There really are times when you can't fathom forgiving a certain person, and it doesn't mean you're being a btch, but its because you are a human and you have a feelings.
People, its okay if you can't forgive a person who hurt you or did a bad thing to you yet. Not forgiving someone is not a sign of being ungrateful. Don't let other people invalidate your feelings. Only you can decide when to forgive that person, only your heart can tell if you're ready to forgive the person who hurt you.
Heal, let yourself be healed from the scars of the past.