I mean she really doesn’t have a choice in marrying him, plus she’s only ever had him be compassionate to her so its natural she has an unhealthy attachment. Even if Ibe is one of the only people treating her genuinely nice, awful prince was the first.
That makes sense. For me, I see it as that she can obviously recognize that her thoughts and behavior are not normal, yet she still acts on it; this in on itself should be a red flag to her. Obviously, it’s very hard to change ways of thinking embedded into you, but she just seems a bit complacent in how she’s letting the negativity consuming her. Maybe I’m being a bit too optimistic though in hoping she seeks help. I do find it interesting how people develop differently from one another. In some cases, when people are never shown any kindness, when someone finally shows them kindness they act like her and they cling to that person; in other instances, the person receiving kindness for the first time can completely reject it due to weariness. It’s all really fascinating
Bro, if you’re that insecure in a relationship, you need to fucking rethink your situation. Do you honestly want to constantly be plagued with thoughts similar to, “someone is trying to steal my lover”, “why am I not good enough,” and “what does she have that I don’t”? Find out what’s making you so insecure and you’ll most likely find that it’s because the relationship itself isn’t stable. I’m just saying; I get her situation is tough but I think we need to get them some lessons in what toxic relationships are and/or maybe couples therapy while we are at it.