I feel you sis
:*)
We are the mother of unborn children:')
I may not be the eldest but as the youngest and only girl in the house with 3 irresponsible brothers, I know how u feel ╥﹏╥
I’m not a really good big sister, i mean i love my sister, but we are really DIFFERENT and, we have a really awkward way to express we care about each other, usually a punch in the head cures everything... but i stopped it... it’s not healthy, being a BIG SISTER IS FREAKING DIFFICULT
You feel kinda like a second mom
I tried to buy something for myself once coz ya know, I deserve it too then my mom proceeded to nag me that I should've bought some for my siblings too. Suddenly, I'm a selfish big sis (｡ŏ﹏ŏ)
Ignore her. I don't know your family situation so i won't judge, but spoiling yourself every once in a while is good
I feel you sis.. Belive me.. I feel you
Wow I do feel bad for older siblings but at the same time I feel bad for the younger sibling too when the older sibling have the “authority” to command their sibling to do stuff in their place. My older sis does not allow me to challenge her authority for ex I can’t yell at her else she feels very insulted but she would yell and sometime take her anger at me (for like two sec). Sighsss is it bc I seem like a pushover? Hmm I would rather word it as it’s too much work to argue back w someone so I just ignore them since they’ll get it over w quicker if no one responded.
Everyone talking about being a middle child.. but belive me.. being a oldest sister is the hardest role for a girl. You have big responsibility and always cares and thinks about your little siblings. Even in the market you will just be like "oh I should bought this because she loves it" and always cares for other siblings.. doing all home works (cleaning etc.)