
don’t worry you’re not being rude :) to me sex isn’t the plot here (it’s a theme or a genre) it’s more like the medium that starts the story and that forces the seme to deal with his struggles (uncovering the uke’s identity and potentially some repressed past trauma / accepting himself / handling his low self esteem and his father’s verbal abuse etc.) A manhwa where the bdsm is the main plot would be for example « Make a Pet Out of a Cactus ».
And let’s learn to accept each other’s opinions without referring to one another as « some of these people ». I’m not trying to lessen the importance of the sex i’m just saying that it’s not a part i enjoy reading because he’s being raped

Sorry if it seems like i was tryna say your opinion ain't great or something, that wasn't my Intention! I was just wondering what you meant by plot because i saw it kinda in another view?? To me it still seems that the plot is more to the smut direction (what you said is also true though) but i can understand what you meant (the genre is yaoi, which shows BL focused on the smut). Also I agree with the rape stuff .
i’m only reading this because im interested in the plot the sex part makes me sick this is rape (whether he enjoys it or even begs for isn’t relevant he isn’t doing it of his own free will) and the fact that it’s non consensual bdsm is so disappointing i’m not saying that if this was vanilla it’d be less disturbing but the act itself is an exchange of pain and both should feel completely comfortable and safe when doing it (the uke is so untrustworthy like he purposely chose a safe word he’d never use unless it was way too extreme??) JAIL