Everyone is saying “why didn’t you just tell him” as if that’s not a big deal. He�...

Persephone April 12, 2021 7:37 pm

Everyone is saying “why didn’t you just tell him” as if that’s not a big deal. He’s probably scared and anxious even if he knows TaeYoon would never cause any harm or have ill intent. But you have to think about that, as much as I agree he’s had chances and should tell him, 1st he had to make sure it was a stable relationship before even introducing him to TaeEun but TaeEun met him much earlier. Like imagine telling TaeYoon yeah you’re the dad then TaeEun starts calling him dad but then they all of a sudden have a falling out, then where does his second parental figure go? Like idk it’s just annoying seeing so many people being like “WHY HAVENT YOU TOLD HIM YOU SHOULDVE TOLD HIM AS SOON AS YOU MET HIM AGAIN”

Responses
    Sedox April 12, 2021 8:08 pm

    Yes but the thing is that it is NOT only for him to decide i'm not saying he should've told him the second they met again but imo he should've told him before even considering dating him.
    Starting a relationship with a lie only cause misunderstanding especially if you're too scared to explain yourself

    Persephone April 12, 2021 9:39 pm

    In my comment I say “as much as I agree he’s had chances and should tell him”. I’m aware he should tell him now in their relationship but my main point was no one is considering the fact he could be scared + the ending quote I made of telling him as soon as they met. I have no issue w the people or the comments that say he should tell him now or should have by now it’s just those who are saying things like you should’ve told him the minute he popped back up because that’s bs.

    Persephone April 12, 2021 9:42 pm
    Yes but the thing is that it is NOT only for him to decide i'm not saying he should've told him the second they met again but imo he should've told him before even considering dating him.Starting a relationship... Sedox

    Aside from my first reply to this, and I’m meaning no rudeness in these, who else would it be to decide if he tells him or not? I’m genuinely curious since no one else knows who else would tell him that he needs to tell TaeYoon? And I do agree that starting a relationship with a lie only causes misunderstandings but he technically didn’t lie, he just hasn’t told him yet. It’s not like he said he doesn’t know the father and any time TaeYoon asks about someone possibly being the father he says no, because that’s the truth. I’m 99% sure that if TaeYoon plainly asked “am I the father” that he would say yes. (Not that TaeYoon should have to ask, I’m just saying)