bruh are we ignoring the fact that their relationship started with him sleeping with an in...

catboys April 14, 2021 9:39 am

bruh are we ignoring the fact that their relationship started with him sleeping with an intoxicated yunifer cuz i see no one ever mentioning that

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    saurahkim April 16, 2021 2:13 pm

    trueee, but i guess the fact that yunifer was kinda unbothered especially since she “seduce” him or whatever. I guess people over look it if i’m wording it right, since her main priority is her survival and staying alive in this world

    catboys April 16, 2021 2:19 pm
    trueee, but i guess the fact that yunifer was kinda unbothered especially since she “seduce” him or whatever. I guess people over look it if i’m wording it right, since her main priority is her survival a... saurahkim

    to me it seems like a the writer just brushed it off. this is why a lot of people dont realize that sleeping with an intoxicated person is not consensual at all, when its depicted as being "okay" then ofc no ones bothered

    saurahkim April 16, 2021 2:26 pm
    to me it seems like a the writer just brushed it off. this is why a lot of people dont realize that sleeping with an intoxicated person is not consensual at all, when its depicted as being "okay" then ofc no on... catboys

    yesss, sorry if my words seemed insensitive by no means i was trynna to say it was okay, i just wanted to explain what was probably yunifers thoughts at that time

    Izzy April 16, 2021 3:49 pm

    It's not consensual if a person is black out drunk or intoxicated to the point they can't function. Yunnifer not only initiated it, she seduced him, was very eager at every point in time and was never confused or unhappy with the situation and remembered everything the next day.
    I do think it's best to not engage in sexual acts with someone who is drunk but nothing in there interaction during or after should be seen as anything other than a nice night even if irresponsible and was not brushed off as yunnifer identified the problem she found with the situation which was not the sex but who she had it with as she didn't know his name at the time and his clingy ways with what was to her a irresponsible one night stand with someone she did not want to be engaged with only for the reason of her knowledge of his character as a novel reader. Their relationship is perfectly healthy excluding Ishid obsessive ways which he works to control and they both have a mutual understanding of what's going on in the relationship for the most part
    I think the only problem was how pushy he was and wanted her to make do for a promise made whilst she was drunk

    catboys April 16, 2021 4:05 pm
    It's not consensual if a person is black out drunk or intoxicated to the point they can't function. Yunnifer not only initiated it, she seduced him, was very eager at every point in time and was never confused ... Izzy

    she "seduced" him BECAUSE she was completely blacked to the point of not remembering a thing the day after so yes its noncon, even if she is okay with it the day after its at least dubcon = still no where near consensual. the problem remains with ishid, hes immature obsessive nd way too emotionally dependent on yunifer for their relationship to be called "perfectly healthy". his bad behavior shouldnt be excluded, its part of what builds the relationship.

    Liananima April 16, 2021 4:29 pm
    she "seduced" him BECAUSE she was completely blacked to the point of not remembering a thing the day after so yes its noncon, even if she is okay with it the day after its at least dubcon = still no where near ... catboys

    If you are "black out " drunk.. you cant even function to seduce anyone. #-.-)

    catboys April 16, 2021 4:35 pm
    If you are "black out " drunk.. you cant even function to seduce anyone. #-.-) Liananima

    what i meant is that she was drunk to the point of blacking out later, she didnt "seduce" anyone she was DRUNK as shit