From anonymous above: don't purposely make your crush's wife jealous even now though. not cool. you'll destroy their marriage and their children's life. :/
That’s not something to be proud of sweetheart..... （￣へ￣）
Hope he stopped hanging around you.
Yup!
Damn.. I kind of understand the feelings that were behind the replies to your comment but I think they are kinda harsch because yes you have made them jealous in the past but that doesn't mean that you are still doing it now and you never said that you're proud of the things you have done. I really don't get where they got that from.. like you never mentioned that in your comment. Mostly the one that said that they hope that he stops hanging around you like wtf? You are trying your best to help him and to stay beside him as a good friend and I'm very proud of you for doing that. Staying beside someone as a good friend while loving them is very hard and does hurt a lot but it seems like you're still pushing through that even though you probably have been getting hurt a lot. I really hope that some day you can be truly happy without hurting that much.. I really hope so.. have a good day or night~ (●'◡'●)ﾉ
(sorry if I wrote something wrong or offended somebody but that still is just my opinion to their story and those comments.)
One question.. where did they even say that they were proud of it? Maybe the person regrets doing that and saying that you hope for them something like that he stops hanging around with them is pretty harsch because you don't even know the situation they are in right now. Maybe they have already talked with him about it or maybe they really are just a good friend for him now and they are fine with it as long as he is happy.
Sorry if this kind of offended you but just saying something harsch like that can hurt a person very mush and like I said before.. you don't even know the situation they are in right now because right now it could be better than it was in the past.
Hey, sorry for replying to both replies but please read the comment again and keep in mind that it's very easy to misunderstand a text that is just written somewhere.
I understood the story in this way:
• they had a crush on him since 1st year highschool
• they made his exes and his wife jealous in the past ( yes even the wife became they never mention that they are still doing it right now)
•they still love him but his happiness is more important to them than them getting in the way of him and his wife
• and that they think that just being beside him as a good friend is enough for them because they don't want to destroy his happiness
(Sorry if I offended you in some kind of way but that was how I understood the comment of @Yuiko )
Ah sorry I just realised that you just put the comment of anonymous into the replies but that.. that's also a thing you shouldn't really do because yeah like I said in my previous reply to you.. they never said that they are still doing it now.
Sorry that I read you reply wrong.
These feelings were from 7 years+ ago. Thank you for seeing it how I wanted people to see it.
I made his wife jealous in the past in the sense that I was I female friend, same with his exes. I didn't do anything.. just the thought of him having a close female friend made them feel that way. I would never dare to come between a husband and wife, especially with children involved. I love him, I love my godson, and I respect their marriage.
Thank you, LuiMae.
I went through something similar in the past. I loved this guy from 1st year high school, but I couldn't tell him. I played the role of his girl best friend. Making his girlfriends jealous was fun and satisfying. It was fun.. until he met someone he really loved he married her. No matter how many of his exes got jealous of me, even his wife sometimes.. I could never have his heart that way. I'm his son's godmother.
I love him.. but I love his happiness more.
With this, I thought, I could never be apart from him.
That was enough. Not really.. but for someone in my position.. it has to be enough.