
Ohhh. I feel ya there. I'm only like that to the people I like haha. I'm usually kind to everyone, idk wtf's wrong with me, i tend to shy away or take advantage of them coz i know they'll come back to me one way or another haha (die me, die for being like that) thoug ofc, i always make sure to patch things up before it gets worse.

But you know you don't have to change if it's not too extreme, I'm just talking about my experience. When I'm tsundere with some of my besties it's just a part of friendship lol (If it's someone I take for granted it gets ugly cause there's no moderation anymore I think it leans towards being abusive but not yet just manipulative I guess)
I hate tsunderes
I just can't stand how they never seem to able to notice how much they're loved and how they hurt others when they don't correspond properly.
But maybe I feel like this because I think I'm a bit tsundere myself (not on that extreme crazy way).