Hmmm. On one hand what aunt did is really bad actions, but inferiority complex is somekind...

Misa_03 April 24, 2021 6:42 pm

Hmmm. On one hand what aunt did is really bad actions, but inferiority complex is somekind of trauma, and she might have behaved like that due to that. I do not justify her actions, but it can be understandable. What can not be understandable is her greedeness and still wanting the death of that child even after he was gone.
Like, literally imagine. You are born in a family where everyone is beautiful, and based on her actions she was not given attention as were given to her sister. Like, literally why then she is alone in that house and going out with multiple men??? Just picture, all attention is given to your sister, and even after you are gone all people think abt is your sister first then you. It hurts, isnt it?
And also, the way how the FL acts is a lil cringy too. If i were to reborn i would have given some respect to that aunts feeling and complex and firstly started show kindness while explaining why all that shit happened with him. Aaand after that i would apologise for the aunts actions, and say smth like "i understand what you feel and you can show resentment, but now, allow me to repay" and then intensly show kindness to him.

Responses
    youraedthiswrogn April 24, 2021 6:48 pm

    Didn't she treat him bad before he started to "blossom" and then it got worse when he did?

    queen20 April 24, 2021 6:55 pm
    Didn't she treat him bad before he started to "blossom" and then it got worse when he did? youraedthiswrogn

    no from what i understood she treated him decently before he turned 6

    youraedthiswrogn April 25, 2021 1:56 am
    no from what i understood she treated him decently before he turned 6 queen20

    I thought the mc just said she looked at taking him in as a burden

    Misa_03 April 25, 2021 9:39 am
    I thought the mc just said she looked at taking him in as a burden youraedthiswrogn

    Yeah, she thought of him as a burden, but still treated him decently. Like, you are not thinking that a woman who lived for most live alone would with all open arms with only positive feelings accept a child of her beautiful sister, arent you? But even then, there was a hint that she thiught of him as a burden in the beginning, but then had a neutral position and treated him decently until he stsrted blooming.

    youraedthiswrogn April 25, 2021 1:31 pm
    Yeah, she thought of him as a burden, but still treated him decently. Like, you are not thinking that a woman who lived for most live alone would with all open arms with only positive feelings accept a child of... Misa_03

    That's reachy af, nothing about her character even gives rise to the possibility that "despite viewing him as a burden she treated him well until he started to look good". It's more consistent with her character that she treayed him bad and then worse later...

    Misa_03 April 25, 2021 7:16 pm
    That's reachy af, nothing about her character even gives rise to the possibility that "despite viewing him as a burden she treated him well until he started to look good". It's more consistent with her characte... youraedthiswrogn

    Now, read the chapter again. There she had not an expression of despise and hate towards her nephew. In addition, she said "at first, I thought that taking in suddenly my nephew was quite bothersome, but.." meaning she treated him decently. Then author says "untill he began blossom" and after, on the second page she said "that blossoming revived that inferiority complex in her and she began treating him bad" the key word- revived. And the way author described her complex, logically assume that she had not though of that complex before the kid reached 6. So, yes, she treated him secently, but after began treating him bad.

    youraedthiswrogn April 25, 2021 7:53 pm
    Now, read the chapter again. There she had not an expression of despise and hate towards her nephew. In addition, she said "at first, I thought that taking in suddenly my nephew was quite bothersome, but.." mea... Misa_03

    I just checked to make sure and it still looks how i understood it the first time... nothing there implies she was nice to him. She says "but" there in reference to Judith's attitude switching from "burden" to outright malevolent because of her inferiority complex.

    Misa_03 April 26, 2021 12:12 am
    I just checked to make sure and it still looks how i understood it the first time... nothing there implies she was nice to him. She says "but" there in reference to Judith's attitude switching from "burden" to ... youraedthiswrogn

    Well, then, that ur problem. That is how you understood and dont want to understand otherwise. And you can think that it is my problem too, but at least i provided evidences why i think that way

    youraedthiswrogn April 26, 2021 12:39 am
    Well, then, that ur problem. That is how you understood and dont want to understand otherwise. And you can think that it is my problem too, but at least i provided evidences why i think that way Misa_03

    No you didn't, you gave an obviously wrong interpretation of what's there... What you're saying is so far fetched it's not worth entertaining. not only does your evidence just debunk your own argument, your argument itself is entirely out of character for Judith...

    The "at first" is up until he started to blossom, which is when things got worse. Nothing implies she was nice in between.

    Okay, now leave me alone.

    Misa_03 April 26, 2021 8:44 am
    No you didn't, you gave an obviously wrong interpretation of what's there... What you're saying is so far fetched it's not worth entertaining. not only does your evidence just debunk your own argument, your arg... youraedthiswrogn

    Naaaah, you obviously dont want to have another thought. You just want to find a villain, tho even trying to understand neither Judith neither me. You understand that you have no arguments and just trying to pick up smth from what i say? I said why I think that way, while you have not any evidence of Judith bullying the boy before he was 6. Again, i will say, it is ur problem whether to accept what i think or no, just stop pushing other into believing what you believe, especially with no evidence. Untill in the story it will say "Judith bullied from the very start" I will believe what i read and deducted.

    Misa_03 April 26, 2021 9:16 am
    No you didn't, you gave an obviously wrong interpretation of what's there... What you're saying is so far fetched it's not worth entertaining. not only does your evidence just debunk your own argument, your arg... youraedthiswrogn

    I firstly never said she was nice to him, just decently. Secondly, you are again saying "out of character for Judith" like you personally know her character and already read the whole novel. You just want to find Judith to be a pure villain. And even in rhe beggining i said, what she did after she turned 6 is really bad, but she could be understood. While you, not even trying to understand my whole comment right just keep saying "out of character; Judith can not be like that". And my understandjngs not far fetched and they are logical, and realistic. While what you say is only driven by your feelings and prejudices.
    What you say have no standings trully. If another person could logically explain to me why they think like that I will axcept that point of view. But yours...at least prove then with the plot, with the words that was said in the manga, aside from your own argument"out of character" and theeeen I could say thats fair. But now, you did not changed my view by your insults and biased view on the character.
    You also say, just leave me alone after i said," you can just think that it is my problem too" you could have just leave me alone after thise words, but no. You want to seem like i am the only one that keep bothering you, while it is obviously you who start all the mess and even replied to my message "at least i provided evidence why i think that way" with no argument, and only insult.
    If it your way of doing things, then just dont debate ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭. Dont start it.

    youraedthiswrogn April 26, 2021 1:04 pm
    I firstly never said she was nice to him, just decently. Secondly, you are again saying "out of character for Judith" like you personally know her character and already read the whole novel. You just want to fi... Misa_03

    I'm not reading either of your book responses and i have the right to end the talk whenever i want so bye now.

    Misa_03 April 26, 2021 6:04 pm
    I'm not reading either of your book responses and i have the right to end the talk whenever i want so bye now. youraedthiswrogn

    Hahaha, ok

    youraedthiswrogn April 27, 2021 1:17 am
    Hahaha, ok Misa_03

    Oh, you took it well. Have a nice night O/