Yeah true. Not abandoned but he still made her wait..
A true man who is going to war will never say "wait for me".. Instead tell her to pray because he may comeback dead, so pray for his wellbeing and its enough.. It was very egoist of him for asking her to wait. He didn't even tell how many years but just wait. It was heart-wrenching.
...this comment doesn't make sense to me because he was a teen when he left. it's not uncommon for teens to make such grandiose romantic declarations and he isn't a bad person for not being able to fulfill them. he told her to wait yes, but she moved on when she had to. i don't understand how people hate him like he wasn't goofing around??? he was at war which is why they couldn't reunite...
it's not abandoning if he's busy because of the war??? he literally said wait until the war is over and the war stretched too long...it wasn't his fault that it took a long time and we know he didn't abandon her bc he's been trying to look for her this entire time. he had something he needed to do and when he couldn't come back in time, guinevere did what she had to do. no one is the asshole in this situation lol why do u guys hate the ml so much
Hmm no.. I am sorry you had a big misunderstanding but I don't hate him..
There's no hard feeling for him.
Well my grandpa was a soldier too. A retired one. He went to war on his teen too. But he told me a story everytime he went to war, he would said to my grandma not to wait and just think the worst to happen; like he being dead. He said it so my grandma will toughen her heart. And he only asked my grandma to pray for him, for his wellbeing..
That's why I can't hate Lancelot. I will never hate him. I only said he was being egoist and that's it...

You're so selfish, I hate you. Better make it up, a lot. You abandoned a young lady for 8 years and saying she's running away? Let me slap you.