
‘maybe it’s because, as usual you guys only act upon what you see’ people that excuse abusive relationship in webtoon scare me cuz if you can excuse that .. you could excuse it happening irl always blaming the victim cuz hey they should’ve ‘known better’ not understanding how psychological damaging it was for the fl to grow up in a family that blamed her mother death on her as a child till she became a adult..and then it happens ones again in her marriage and motherhood is stripped away from her if this story was real and was every on the news would you still say ‘hey but he was forced to do that!!’ argument ? no you wouldn’t why because he’s a helping hand to her death and made her spiral even more mentally

That's why I was asking why all the hate is only for the ML and not the father. I know there are some that thinks like that but people seemingly forgot the root of all the problems here. If the father cared for the FL, none of this would have happened. And I'm also not victim blaming here. All I'm asking is why people only point out on the ML's side (when he clearly has a reason and does better seeing as why FL falls for him in the future chapters). Yes, his irrationality was stupid, but so is FL's father.
And I think there is a miscommunication here. I'm not blaming FL because of what happened to her. I'm talking about how she took Elle all by herself and the child couldn't bond with his father that much — seeing as how even she says it herself in the latest chapters.
(Now before you tell me: "Well, ML's at fault for leaving his wife and son at home for months.", both ML and FL made an agreement in the previous chapter that Elle was supposed to be hers and that they (ML and FL) limit seeing each other in the future. But seeing as she said that must mean how FL doesn't want to see her son growing up without a father).
I don't care what you guys think. You guys are only acting upon what you see when you don't even know what's beyond that. I understand when there are moments where your emotion just burst and maybe I'm not like you guys who act on impulse without thinking this through. But I hope you guys would not fill the comments with hate reviews only for the ML. MC's father also did wrong. FL also has her shortcomings both in the past and present life. But why don't I see them, I wonder? Ah, maybe it's because, as usual, you guys only act upon what you guys see.