"-feel like I've lost my confidence as a woman"

Huh???? Cheating is mistake that most people don’t forgive even if it happens once. And it’s NEVER the women’s fault for why men cheat, if they are losing feelings they should just break up but why would she think of the person who betrayed her....being cheated on makes you think “was there something wrong with me?” “Am I not enough?” So rather than the women thinking of the male , the male should think about her and how painful it is to be betrayed by someone you love.....

Bruh i definitely agree... she's a workaholic (nothing wrong with that)...while Niina loved her the way she was , soon he realised that she has completely stopped paying attention to his needs n found solace in Michi...
It is also worth noting that in her past relationships, at the end of the day ,guys typically expected her to clean the house n stuff like making dinner not earning money ...but since Niina didn't expect such things from her, she liked him ...the more he showed his love, the more she fell in love with her job....i personally feel that instead of being her husband, Niina would have been much happier being her assistant...

I never said it was okay to cheat and I didn't say what I said to support Niina for his reason for cheating, rather I was pointing out that although his wife may feel hurt, she is not the only one who feels hurt.

From what you said, you make it sound as if only the woman's feelings only matter and not the man's, "It's never the woman's fault for why men cheat" and "rather than the woman thinking of the male, the male should think about her" why bring this up? Its not okay the other way either ╮(￣▽￣)╭ and also a relationship is about 2 people working together, it shouldn't be just one side thinking about the other

you also said "was there something wrong with me? Am I not enough?" This, this was my exact point, its not like the wife was the only one who felt this way, Niina did too. She couldn't give the time of day for him, how do you think he felt? If anyone read the story, they would know how he felt

Right, personally as a woman who comes from a family where they expect the woman to cleanup after everyone and insert themselves into the historical gender roles, I can sympathize with the wife on this part but people really need to realize that there are 2 sides to a story. I'm not saying that what Niina did was right, I AM SAYING that the wife isn't the only one that got hurt in their relationship and to me, when she said that she felt she had lost her confidence as a woman, it sounded really like self-pity and selfish, when does she start thinking about her family and put them first before her job? Like you said, they would have been better off as boss and assistant

I thought we were talking about niina not the ml wife, nah it was her fault for not paying attention to him in the first place but these adults should talk it out, idk why they just let things be when they should’ve communicated

Ehhh well Niina's wife but same concept i guess, cheating in general not okay