To all the people who are disappointed or angry because fl's improvement is slow: if you...

Bbfujoghurl May 2, 2021 1:08 pm

To all the people who are disappointed or angry because fl's improvement is slow:

if you ever had trauma and recovered in a short time frame aka fast. Good for you. But don't expect other people to do it as fast as you. That's an insult to all the people with trauma, including to yourself (if you ever had trauma).

And if you never had experienced trauma, then shut up because that's ignorance is you shouldn't flaunt. They were abused and you expect them to improve according to your decided timeframe? That's called ignorance. And to some point, entitled.

If you expect such development because this is fiction, the people reading this are real humans. Some readers have issues too or know someone who have, and can be bothered by your comments. I know the world is free and no can dictate what you do. But it can never hurt to be fairly sensitive.

Always remember, mental issues is never and will never be something you can just brush off or have "expectations" to. Please stop being ignorant and read more about psychological health. That kind of ignorance could kill people. And being educated about those kinds of issue can save people. You don't have to say any comforting words. You just have to shut up and never judge.

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    Bbfujoghurl May 2, 2021 4:56 pm
    Yeah and thats ok but so do I. I never really talk about my mental illness and my own abuse and thats not my point tbh its just letting people say what they wanna say without telling them to shut it but just so... yoshimika

    Ah. Yes, I understand that. I, too, likes strong mc who overcame her struggles fast. I read them a lot too. It just bothers me when someone criticize fl's who are not like that. The struggles, I experienced it many times and it sucks every time. The comments just hit me different than you. It's like "how can they say that to her, when you know what being criticize for being weak feels". If you know that it happens in real life, why won't you expect it to happen in fiction and be angry at it. Aren't they supposed to leave it just like how other people do when they get bothered by how other protags recover fast.

    Besides, I think the author wants to convey the struggles, that's why he/she made it that way. The novel is slow burn and is still in going (the last time I checked). People can just drop the manwha if they don't like it and then move on. Rather than, commenting that way. Then no one would be bothered. The comments caught my eye while I was looking for the raws tbh. I didn't look for them.

    Just because you're given the right to comment doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. Besides, I told them to shut up but they can decide for themselves if they follow me. Isn't that what the comment section are for, just as what you've said. So what you say about freedom of speech also applies to me.

    Bbfujoghurl May 2, 2021 5:12 pm
    I think I forgot to press reply on my prev comment but were cool. I think we've both made our points though I don't type as good as you haha mines full of typos but its good man. I've said what I wanted to say ... yoshimika

    Yes, we're cool. This turned to be a debate lol. Let's end it here. Thanks for replying nicely btw. Good day to you.


    Goodluck with the battles you're fighting. You mentioned you don't talk about your mental illness. I did too. It's really hard to talk about it with someone but if you do, it helps with the unloading. I did fail a lot of times before succeeding. I got disappointed with the response a lot of times too and opted to just stop. They'll never understand anyway. Anyways, I got lucky and met a friend who I came to trust enough to tell and succeeded after a looooong time. I'm glad I tried to tell her some of it. I'm currently working on telling them more. It's still hard and I still get anxious but yeah. I hope you find someone you trust enough to tell them too and succeed with the unloading. Bless you. Have a good day. Eat lots people.