Responses
Sis I- he was grieving for four whole years in loneliness and after that he tried to pick himself up and love himself and try to move on.... A year later you supposed missing lover comes back and tries to get back with you even when you already had a new lover him being virtues and loyal man pushed him aside and refused him
But guess what later you found out your ex gets a new lover and you realized that you aren't happy with your own lover and you still have feelings for him
No one can be blamed for their decisions....

that ex bf doesn't get to have any pity. it was his own decisions to treat uke the worst way possible.if i was in place of uke i would've been in jail for half murder case