It's not rape if they were both drunk *runs away*

xiushi May 3, 2021 6:50 am

It's not rape if they were both drunk *runs away*

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    Meli May 3, 2021 7:53 am
    I responded to that person but in the context I was talking about the person who originally commented the one who said it isn't rape cause they are both drunk I_Am_Very_Gay

    I just get really defensive and aggressive when someone accuses me of things like a victim blaming when I literally am a fucking victim Makes me so fucking mad it makes my blood boil
    So I just hope they shut the fuck up and educate themselves in something like this because literally I am a victim it’s so fucking annoying when someone talks and they don’t know shit about it
    Fucking pisses me off

    I_Am_Very_Gay May 3, 2021 7:53 am
    Oh sorry I actually thought you meant that you agreed with that person saying that I was victim blaming even though that’s not even what I was doing :/ Person who accuse me a victim blaming is literally so ... Meli

    It's fine, I should've made it more clear who i was talking about

    Not using this account anymore May 3, 2021 7:54 am
    ( don’t take offense to this comment because I don’t mean it aggressively or offensive in any sort of way i’m basically going to use it as a way to back up my claim because Kirby is literally throwing w... Meli

    No I meant I totally agree with you but I just want this to all be like not happening within the storyline at all and it was all hwans dream since both sides just- literally raped each other :(

    Meli May 3, 2021 7:55 am
    ( don’t take offense to this comment because I don’t mean it aggressively or offensive in any sort of way i’m basically going to use it as a way to back up my claim because Kirby is literally throwing w... Meli

    Unconsentedly touched each other *^
    Auto corrected to consentedly ~

    Not using this account anymore May 3, 2021 7:57 am
    ( don’t take offense to this comment because I don’t mean it aggressively or offensive in any sort of way i’m basically going to use it as a way to back up my claim because Kirby is literally throwing w... Meli

    Oh no I totally agree with you man, I’m just hoping all of this was in hwans dream since both parties just raped each other and they both deserve to receive the same energy to be honest since most people think it was just the tops doing :(

    Meli May 3, 2021 8:01 am
    No I meant I totally agree with you but I just want this to all be like not happening within the storyline at all and it was all hwans dream since both sides just- literally raped each other :( Not using this account anymore

    Yeah same :(
    But I literally fucking love you so hard bruh
    U have a good day <3

    Peach May 3, 2021 8:03 am
    I think you don’t understand what the victim blaming actually means because you’re throwing it around randomly The bottom initiated by kissing without consent which is basically sexual assault The top th... Meli

    I was debating if I should even reply to you but I feel I do have to clear my side up.
    Look I’m just saying what I see based on what you have stated: which is “uke initiated” it is implied there that you are victim blaming. Did you mean to? No, but it is still implied. Additionally, I’m deeply deeply sorry that you even had to have gone through a situation like that. It’s horrible, and I sincerely hope that you are in a better situation now. However, you can not make assumptions about me at all! You do not know what I have been through in my life so you do not get to dictate on what I am allowed to discuss.

    Peach May 3, 2021 8:08 am
    Ok ok, but y'all discussing law semantics but like do we even know if any of them are "victims"? Like do we even believe that either of them was left with some sort of trauma and/or emotional distress? The cour... Big tiddy goth gf

    That’s true, but I assume that if Chi woo does find out about this and about the time that blue hair assaulted him in his sleep then he wouldn’t be very happy. Also, I ended my statement with we won’t know what really happened until the next chapter. Im just commenting because people think a kiss is a green light and it’s wrong to even think that.

    Meli May 3, 2021 8:15 am
    That’s true, but I assume that if Chi woo does find out about this and about the time that blue hair assaulted him in his sleep then he wouldn’t be very happy. Also, I ended my statement with we won’t kno... Peach

    Saying they both initiated it does not mean one side initiated it
    You should read my other comments because I commented this like 30 times
    Everyone has comprehension skills and the way you decide to comprehend something as your own but the way I put it I did not put it that way

    Big tiddy goth gf May 3, 2021 8:19 am
    That’s true, but I assume that if Chi woo does find out about this and about the time that blue hair assaulted him in his sleep then he wouldn’t be very happy. Also, I ended my statement with we won’t kno... Peach

    I think the ch is hinting as Chiwoo believing it only was a dream, being like "am i dreaming?" since this is Hwan's flashback and so it's his memories.
    Tbh I don't like people on both extremes. A drunk kiss isn't a green light, but also a kiss can be pretty terrible if you're in a position where you can't consent. Overall it's gonna be glossed over most likely in future chapters so all the arguing is a bit pointless

    Peach May 3, 2021 8:26 am
    I think the ch is hinting as Chiwoo believing it only was a dream, being like "am i dreaming?" since this is Hwan's flashback and so it's his memories.Tbh I don't like people on both extremes. A drunk kiss isn'... Big tiddy goth gf

    True true. I should of made myself a whole lot clearer because this whole chat is a mess. I didn’t mean to side with Chiwoo so much because, yea. An unwanted kiss can be pretty bad too. I was just pretty mad that people were excusing blue hair because they were both drunk and because Chiwoo kissed him. But your right! We’re arguing over something that might be completely glossed over next chapter lmao

    Peach May 3, 2021 8:28 am
    Saying they both initiated it does not mean one side initiated it You should read my other comments because I commented this like 30 times Everyone has comprehension skills and the way you decide to compreh... Meli

    Yup, I read all your replies. It’s much clearer now, although I don’t appreciate how you kept calling me ignorant. You first reply does make it seem a certain way so can we both agree that we both were a bit assuming? Either, in the end this argument might not even matter anymore depending how next chapter turns out

    I'm someone May 3, 2021 10:02 am
    Oh sorry I actually thought you meant that you agreed with that person saying that I was victim blaming even though that’s not even what I was doing :/ Person who accuse me a victim blaming is literally so ... Meli

    OH okay I thought you were getting mad at me because I said something wrong