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dazaikinnie May 5, 2021 8:40 pm

i hate the way they hyperfeminize jooin and they reduce his character into a bland, dependent person with no personality like those little mary sue in a cliche drama just to make yahwi, an absolute asshole shine. i know i have no right saying this as i am only an illegal reader but its just disappointing and distorts actual representation of mlm relationships :(

Responses
    bonca May 5, 2021 8:42 pm

    agreed its mostly always like this in yaois and its so tiring and disappointing to see :(

    mika May 5, 2021 8:45 pm

    very much agree

    DorianGrey May 5, 2021 8:48 pm

    I'm more disappointed to see how not only men but also women (as I assume the author is), think a woman behaves. Cuz in yaoi, the bottom is supposed to represent a female perspective or at least a femenine one. Lame

    dazaikinnie May 5, 2021 8:50 pm
    I'm more disappointed to see how not only men but also women (as I assume the author is), think a woman behaves. Cuz in yaoi, the bottom is supposed to represent a female perspective or at least a femenine one.... DorianGrey

    THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO POINT OUT IM GLAD U PUT IT INTO WORDS ^^

    lipstickjule May 5, 2021 9:06 pm

    Yeah Jooin is so basic he really does feel like a female lead. You could switch him with the girl he and Yahwi did the class project with and it still would be the same story. The only difference is maybe a pregnancy scare or two.

    DorianGrey May 6, 2021 1:06 am
    Yeah Jooin is so basic he really does feel like a female lead. You could switch him with the girl he and Yahwi did the class project with and it still would be the same story. The only difference is maybe a pre... lipstickjule

    Aaaand them that's why we have omegaverse or pregman :D
    Seriously, there are so many messed up things about how women have to use a male charachter to portray the kind of intensity in sex and emotions that is politically incorrect to use in a truly female character. But at the end of the day, it looks like both guys and girls want to see the female counterpart as weak and fragile. Fck them all.

    lipstickjule May 6, 2021 2:06 am
    Aaaand them that's why we have omegaverse or pregman :DSeriously, there are so many messed up things about how women have to use a male charachter to portray the kind of intensity in sex and emotions that is po... DorianGrey

    Right? It gives misogyny, misandry, and homophobia all at once.

    DorianGrey May 6, 2021 4:10 pm
    Right? It gives misogyny, misandry, and homophobia all at once. lipstickjule

    Yeah -.-