i didn't like nine being all cry baby at all. never did. it feels more like he likes the idea of her bending to his will and being a fragile princess. she is a crazy monster, that is what she is and always has been. this plan goes in line with the shit she does. and tbf drinking some poison with the antidote in hand and an amazing healer is much less dangerous than going against that monster from nine's family in the forest... that was so much more dangerous, but no one blinked against it. so why be worried now just because nine decided to cry like a little baby? he can be worried all he want, but it would be much more protective to actually help her on her plans, so nothing weird happens... but he rather chose to step out and make her worry, so when he makes her fail he can go all "told ya so my fragile princess let me hug you".
i hope it all goes well and he shuts up. i love her free spirit character. i am rooting more for the other girl than nine... he doesn't seem to know well the girl he likes... it feels like he met a crazy rock and roll fan in a concert, but than later is asking them to not listen to it because "it is too load"...
okay, the example isn't that equivalent, but you probably get what i mean... i am not saying this isn't dangerous tho, but the idea of it being particular more dangerous than anything else she did... come on... dangerous is her middle name! that is who she is!
i hope everything goes right, and if doesn't nine can do nothing, and the other girl help her. i really don't want his premise to have any validation. :P
to be honest i don’t get what you mean? he's being over protective, but it’s not to the point where he wants her to be a fragile princess. she willingly does dangerous things even though she has people that care about her because she believes that everything will be alright. she has this blind faith in the people around her that she doesn’t even stop to consider why nine is mad. nine has always been following her around that when he stopped doing it for once and stood his ground, she associated him with the men that she knows (the prince, her brother, the other wolf guy) instead of viewing him as a friend that’s concerned for her. i think she only views nine as that: a subservient friend. she’s been in charge and doing things her way without much backlash from her friends that she’s developed a sort of ego, which is why nine is so frustrated. she didn’t tell him beforehand that this was going to happen, and discussed something that can easily kill her so nonchalantly. he’s not tying her down, he’s genuinely worried about her safety and how reckless she is with her own life. instead of viewing him as a crybaby, maybe just view things from his perspective. his savior and love is doing something that can actually kill her if things don’t go right, and she gets mad at him for wanting to care about her. melissa is in the wrong in this situation. imagine this in real life, your significant other is, let’s say, not wearing a mask in the pandemic. they have a strong immune system and is fairly healthy, so they think that they’re not gonna die even if they do get covid. you still want them to wear a mask because they could actually die, but they say that you’re wrong for telling them to wear one and that they can do whatever they want to. there’s a limit to how recklessly you can act until you drive away the people that care about you
the situation in the forest was also completely different than this, melissa had to act out because someone was going to die. it was an emergency and she needed to think fast. this situation is different, she’s doing this because she wants to bring someone down, not because someone’s going to die. yes, that one guy doesn’t like her and is trying to harm her but it’s not an impending threat like the other one was. she’s just choosing the most extravagant way to take this guy down because she doesn’t like him. that’s why nine cares so much more, the forest situation dealt with more lives. in this one, just melissa is getting hurt. not yuri, not nine, but just melissa. it’s not like melissa is the strongest either, she’s not invincible. the chance of death isnt high with the poison, but it’s still there. if she were to die in the forest, she would’ve died a hero trying to save her friends. but in this situation, she would die a fool that was murdered by an obsessive man
you are as bad on equivalent examples as i am... lol i would love to keep doing counterpoints but i think this would only makes us go in circles of "no u".
i get what you mean tho and it is unfortunate that you don't get me. but oh well.
i still don't agree, we see their reality/priorities quite a bit differently, but that is something we can't run away from anyway. i hope you enjoy the outcome of this and have a nice time all around. goodbye.
I know y’all aren’t getting mad at Nine for getting mad at Melissa for knowingly and willingly drinking an unknown poison. Idk what kind of shit friends y’all are but if my friend told me they would drink something despite knowing it was poisoned even if there was an antidote on hand I would absolutely rock their shit. Yeah we get it Melissa can make her own decisions but this has nothing to do with the fact that she doesn’t reciprocate Nine’s feelings nobody is saying that she has to but he has a right to be mad that someone he cares about is constantly putting their life at risk (and honestly I think this time if she just took the plan she could sort it out without risking her life but I’m not the author so what I think doesn’t matter)