And let's not forget the harassment Jihyuk had done to Eungyoem as revenge. He even pushed a drunken Eungyeom to have s*x with him when Eungyeom made things clear that he's trying to put his feelings to an end. Afterwards it's only been series of s*x after s*x.
We might be too used to seeing uke saying "no" and not meaning it while doing the deeds, but I noticed that Eungyeom had quite meant it when he said "no". Especially when they're at Eungyeom's family house. Eungyeom looked truly worried about the twins waking up, considering how much he treasures his siblings, I can imagine how uncomfortable he felt during those times.
It's true Eungyoem overreacted and said mean things, but looking at their past history, he has his reasons for doing so. I'm in no way saying what he's doing is right, but he doesn't deserve all this hate.
Should we forget that the uke has (and maybe still have) trust issues when it comes to dating men? Almost every men he has dated either left him or toyed with him. I ain't defending him with what he did because those words his siad toward his seme is not good at all, ofc he's drunk we know that. We can't hate the uke, but we can say what he said to his seme during that time was very wrong of him.