Not matter what kind of reason he had, I still don't think what he did was something forgivable, but all that happened in the previous life. The current one have done nothing of those thing, so he can't be blamed for what happened in the previous life.
"but I want her to heal and bond with the ML" <-- this is exactly where you went wrong
Phased it wrong; I want her to heal before her to bond with the ML cause obviously she has trauma from what happened to her. The bonding and forming a friendship (I think they should be friends before anything more) is after she heals
Is that necessary or needed? Would that be healthy for her?
Yeah what he did was completely wrong; but I don’t think it should be blamed onto his current life. Regardless of this fact she’s going to be reluctant to trust him in the least bit because of what he could do now. If he did it once before, what would stop him from doing it again? And she doesn’t know the reason yet on why he acted like so cause he never gave an explanation
I still think the ML can have a second chance; not the one as the past ML but the “new” and previous one. I don’t like how he handled the situation at the time and he let her father step all over him; leading the FL’s suffering.
It’s not entirely his fault; he was trading ones life for others and his own- he also didn’t know it’ll be so bad. He did the best that he could- it doesn’t excuse the actions but IMO it explains it (to an extent). I don’t want the FL to forgive OR forget what happened to her, but I want her to heal and bond with the ML we know of due to her actions she took, influencing how he acted and changed as a person (or well didn’t become the person he was)
I also hope somehow she gets revenge on her family specifically father (but first, finds out why her life was so shitty with her husband) and that their child doesn’t come out like he did before. He didn’t deserve what happened to him too, having his birth mom dead and was lead to believe the black-haired girl was his mother; never knowing the (half) truth till he found out one day.
I also want to know the girls intention in all of this! Like whhat was her motive? How did she get married to the ML, was the guy willingly doing this or was this another thing the FL’s father planned? Can’t wait for more so that I can find out (づ￣ ³￣)づ