well it's like Sanho had told YH, YH is the type too catch feelings easily/ is the type to always be in a committed relationship more than just having a sex friend. InSeo on the other hand just does whatever he wants when he wants and isn't used to commitment. They care a lot about each other, but one can't be sure yet how much he likes the other because he's never been in a relationship and has a hard time letting go of their relationship, always giving in to pleasure. InSeo is also very dense and only skims over the issue because to him, as long as they end up doing what he wants, how it's defined doesn't matter. He's a pain in the neck like that. I honestly disagree with YH trying out other guys personally just because it's an unnecessary approach that leads to your usual tropes of the seme overreacting and then giving the uke a hard time saying it's the uke's fault or smthn. I also don't see how it's necessary to go sleep with other people just to see if he has feelings for InSeo or not, like it's just so unnecessary. How dense does one have to be- but anyway, I feel like the restaurant owner is definitely gonna try something on YH and maybe that leads to InSeo understanding what his own feelings are about YH. I mean, he did already push the boss off of YH once, so like, how dense does he have to be when he clearly didn't want YH being in the hands of someone else??- It's just your usual fools taking forever to have proper communication because InSeo is so non-committal to how he approaches things.
Yeah, In Seo seems like don't care much but ends up doing what he wants. The difference is their background that made them with such personalities I guess. For YH is not necessarily to sleep with other character to find out about his feelings as you mentioned. But maybe he should find someone who truly understands him? Cause In Seo seems like kinda ignorant to me throughout the chps. I don't hate his personality, but actually I kinda like his positive behaviour but, in last chpts it kinda hurt seeing YH feeling guilty abt their doings in front of his parents, and how InSeo handled the conversation between them about the topic didn't convince me much, rather I felt it might hurt YH in some way. Anyway, it's good to know other reader's opinions too
Oh and yes, regarding boss. In Seo push off YH's boss but in the end saying "are we in love with each other? " is kinda strange.
I have an actual question, did YH felt "badump " towards InSeo yet? Like acknowledging himself that he has feelings towards him? Same question about InSeo. So why not anticipate YH having some affair with his boss too? Like of course mutual affair not some assault or "r*pe" scenario. I just want YH have some test with other man who is affectionate or interested in him. And let him realise that he can be loved by others, or him and InSeo have feelings for each other. Ooor, just healthy s*x friend relationships is not bad too. Like where both sides have no responsibility that bide them to each other.
But preferable if they acknowledge each other that they have no feelings. But in InSeo and YH's case they sure have feelings more than just friends so 3rd option may not be possible which is currently happening between them I guess??