Since when did he gained experience? He said he searched it up on the internet so that how he gained “experience”. Honestly good for Shirataki for taking the time to search how to make his partner feel good. If not, he’ll hurt the poor boy. Gotta know what your doing so research helps!!
he said he had "little experience". Meaning he's already had sex at least once with a girl before he met the uke. It's his first time with a man but he's not a virgin. Probably not many people think the same way I do but to me intimacy and sexual act I would only give it to the person I love. Pretty much most Semes in manga are those who had casual relationships. LIke " Oh she confess to me .she's pretty. then date then sex". The uke is someone who is in his first love (pure and innocent) while semes are those who were people just date just for the sake of it not because they like the other person.
I would rather choose a setting where the Seme is either a natural in sex or the type who researched a lot. This just my opinion but I will feel uncomfortable if the person I'm dating used to have physical intimacy with other people. I hate the idea that it's only natural to be experienced in dating and in sex, like being experienced make them hotshit and being a virgin is sometimes being used as an insult.
The ultimate wholesome story I want to read is something like "I've given you my first, you give me yours". Like first and last love, first kiss, first physical intimacy with a single person. I've mostly just seen it in Chinese bl novels. Just me ranting again
Why do semes always have to be experienced in sex? There are too few mangas were both parties are virgins. I think it's more wholesome when they both find the joys of sex rather than an experienced one leading a virgin. (It's just me ranting that jp manga depicts seme highschoolers should have lost their virginity early on in order to lead the virgin partner)