To the people that think their relationship is toxic... Well, it's a manhwa so there's go...

To the people that think their relationship is toxic...

Well, it's a manhwa so there's gonna definitely gonna be parts that may not fly in real life that just works in fictional works but other than that, I feel like y'all are a bunch of snowflakes.

I know I'm gonna get a ton of hate for this. But I'm saying this as a sex-repulsed demisexual. Now that may sound like I'm not qualified at all to talk about sexual health but I'd argue that I am since I have to learn and understand sex culture more than the average person because of how I am.

For example, I saw someone say that their sex was just the hyung saying "no" and "stop" all the time and that Kang was just forcing it the way he wants? I mean, it definitely appeared like that ngl and if you're in a relationship where you aren't enjoying it, then it's toxic.

But to me it just looked like he was panicking or telling him to stop because of the immense pleasure. There are certain levels of pleasure that just seem like you can't get to without someone pushing you to it, and it seemed like the author was trying to highlight that the uke was not just having an emotionally rich relationship but one that had sex like he's never had before, since he's only ever been raped and abused by that bastard.

I'll agree that there was that one chapter (I forget which one) where the uke was hurting and seung-chan said he couldn't stop, which shouldn't have been written like that. But them again, he stopped and prepped him after that like a, "yeah I should do this". But I'm not sure that's enough to call it toxic you know...

Also the side stories...
When partners are comfortable with each other, they can act like that around each other. I mean, didn't they agree to the act before they started it? I agree with how someone said they should have a safe word though but, I don't think the uke always says no or stop because he's in pain or hates it... That was like once.

Additionally, saying that their jealousy was toxic...I'm sorry. But what?? That wasn't toxic jealousy???
Jealousy isn't a bad thing? It shows that you love and care for them deeply; it's only bad when it goes too far. I've seen toxic jealousy and that was NOT it. That was regular old couples-being-dumb kinda jealousy. It was like a puppy version with all the pouting and babying with each other.

Also someone said that seung-chan forced hyesung to the beach? And dragged him to the ocean??? Uhhh noooo???? He didn't know he had a trauma and tried to commit suicide. He begged the guy to come with him because he was being hot n cold and this guy was just trying to court him...

Hyesung doesn't know healthy love if it hit him with a truck so he needs someone to open his eyes. Unfortunately one of the location was a place he was traumatized by but he didn't force him. And the second time with the vacation home?? If hyesung hated it, he would've fought or yelled or done something...
Didn't y'all see the panel where he reminisced their steamy week and thought, "I didn't know I lacked such self-control..." Meaning that he couldn't stop either???

Bruh with the way you guys describe things, it seems like relationships should be regulated by strict governed rules for all and maybe alarm systems that shock you when you do anything with emotion and no one should woo anyone anymore. Just strictly vanilla interactions unless someone opts for the BDSM program or other. Sounds like we're all a bunch of robots now.