Boy problems.. help TT^TT

Amarehana May 11, 2021 9:04 am

Okay so I’m dating this guy right, well we did kinda get into this relationship kinda fast but I’ve noticed that he is really possessive and clingy.

Like I love BTS a lot, I’m an army but when I told my bf he got mad at me, he asked me this question “ would you really die if you were in a room with them”? And I said yes cuz I’m a really big fan but they have helped me a lot personally so if I did get a chance I’d love to sit down and have a chat BUT he escalated it to the point where he was like of so u love em so much I’ll have sex w em too huh, like what?

He also won’t let me have any guy friends, he’s like don’t talk to your co workers if a guy says hi, ignore them, he knew I had two guy best friends and like they both had gf but even then he got mad at me then he said I’m sorry I’ve just had bad experiences and stuff.

It’s been 4 and half month since we started dating and he’s also like talking about marriage and living together and stuff( we are 19)

He’s also talked about like misogynistic stuff and how women are just inferior to men, in terms of strength and like work related? Like world wide too, but then he said it was a joke

He gets mad at small things and I always have to work it out, I’m a very patient person which I honestly did not know. But my friend said he’s emotionally manipulative.

Like he always says I miss you I love right after fights and stuff... sometimes I feel like I’m kinda trapped..... idk what to do pls help.

I do know he likes me a lot so I just can’t make myself to break up... I like him too but idk my feelings keep wavering and I feel like this isn’t the one

Responses
    Amarehana May 11, 2021 2:56 pm
    He will def get hurt. But all u can do is break up in a tender way and say that he will find a better person because u and he are not compatible, not because he is a bad person. After that pls dont go anywhere ... Jex

    Your right, it’s gunna be hard, but Thank you And he loves like kinda far from me 2h by bus so I think I should b fine? Like I’m in Toronto n he’s in Mississauga

    Jex May 11, 2021 4:10 pm

    Girl, BREAK UP immediately, we are here to bring you the courage, dont get cold feet, U HAVE TO DO THIS FOR YOURSELF, dont give a damn about anyone else, pls, this is really serious, its like u have to save yourself hun, dont maintain this situation any more. It gets worse minute by minute, keep in mind that u didnt do anything wrong.

    noyoudont May 12, 2021 5:09 am
    You see that’s the thing, he honestly is, but we’ve had this talk, in the we would talk a lot then I kinda just started to text less in words but he got mad about that and was like telling me so Uluru loosi... Amarehana

    What the actual fuck is he im sorry but is he 10 or sumn lol How about try being the whiny bitch one yea? Like instead of you ended up apologizing, be immature! Do things u think he will get tired of, like hints of talking to boys or sumn MAKE HIM JEALOUS THEN IF HE GETS MAD BE MAD SAYING UR ATTITUDE US FUCKING GARBAGE SHIT IM DUMPING YOUR UGLY ASS or something like that??? And never explain anything like oh hes just someone THEN LEAVE HIM ON FUCKING READ yk get yo revenge arc queen U DONT DESERVE THAT TYPA MAN AND i know im just saying things bcs ive never been in a relationship but i really hope i helped u even one bit coz i really feel bad DATE A WOMAN INSTEAD

    Amarehana May 12, 2021 7:17 am
    What the actual fuck is he im sorry but is he 10 or sumn lol How about try being the whiny bitch one yea? Like instead of you ended up apologizing, be immature! Do things u think he will get tired of, like hint... noyoudont

    Women are , but yes! I’ll do this THANKYOU I DECIDED TO BREAK UP TMRW

    Amarehana May 12, 2021 7:18 am
    Girl, BREAK UP immediately, we are here to bring you the courage, dont get cold feet, U HAVE TO DO THIS FOR YOURSELF, dont give a damn about anyone else, pls, this is really serious, its like u have to save you... Jex

    I knowwwww, THANK YOUU ILL TRY TO DO IT TMRW! N I will thank you