Eh I personally like the seme and I think he's good for the uke. I understand the uke's fear, it's a valid one but the seme has a point. Unless the uke leaves his comfort zone, the uke will most likely live his whole life in fear. If he doesn't get moved from his comfort zone, nothing will change. The uke is gay and he knows it and he also wants to be in a relationship. Since he will be in a gay relationship, it is inevitable and necessary for him to leave his comfort zone. If he wants to pursue this relationship, he has to stop living in fear. Saying the seme is just gaslighting and being manipulative is just too much.
Eh I personally like the seme and I think he's good for the uke. I understand the uke's fear, it's a valid one but the seme has a point. Unless the uke leaves his comfort zone, the uke will most likely live his whole life in fear. If he doesn't get moved from his comfort zone, nothing will change. The uke is gay and he knows it and he also wants to be in a relationship. Since he will be in a gay relationship, it is inevitable and necessary for him to leave his comfort zone. If he wants to pursue this relationship, he has to stop living in fear. Saying the seme is just gaslighting and being manipulative is just too much.