
Yeah you’re right but at the same time I also think that is just his personality tbh. Maybe because I’m such a free spirited person the idea of restricting or forcing someone to do anything even when I was younger had always made me cringe heavily. Either way he really needs to leave Ham alone. Don’t mind me, I think I’m genuinely just triggered because I’ve been in the “you have to love me back” situation too many times

personality develops from our environment specifically from our parents and guardians who are the main influence in our upbringing. Yeah I completely understand you. But yeechan is still in the phase you so called “puppy love” while ham I think already passed through all the phases I think based on it.
This is probably an unpopular opinion but that is was you get! I hate ppl that force their feelings on others. I’m like Ham, I have boundaries that I enforce strictly, no means no for me, and yes means yes. I always mean what I say and say what I mean, if I say I don’t have feelings for you or I don’t want to be in a relationship with you then why are you taking it upon yourself to force me into it? That man has JUST got out of a relationship. Give him some time to breathe!