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EXACTLY i felt the same way. Sure the FL is human but she had no right to ask the ml to cut off his ties with Do Kyung and even delete her number...
I think she asked him to cut things of because of how wishy washy he was, he’s a bit of a fuck boy and takes some pride knowing when a girl likes him like when they where at their school festival and he said “well there could be something between us” knowing the FL was right behind them.
To be honest, I think it was a little unfair that Sung eun told Eun sung to cut Do kyung off, I feel like their friendship was something that they'd had for a long time and it was important to them so it wasn't really her place to say. She could decide not to date him if she felt uncomfortable with it, but I don't think she should've given him an ultimatum like "choose between your friend or the girl you like". But then again, the choice was up to Eun sung and he chose her so I guess she was more important to him than Do kyung. Although, Do kyung also had no right to give him an ultimatum, friends and lovers have different places in your heart, you can love them differently and on different scales but still treasure them just as much as each other.
My main issue lies with Sung eun's restrictions (or should I call them rules?) that she kept giving to Eun sung. First she says delete the number of your close friend who you've known for 5 years, then she suddenly tells him it's okay to talk to her and tell her if things are hard for him, then she starts feeling uncomfortable with them going to the same MT, like she should just make up her mind, you know? I get that people are defending her indecisiveness with the fact that she's "only human", but Eun sung is human too, and as a fellow human myself I can't help but think that Sung eun is being too demanding. Just put yourself in Eun sung's shoes, if the person you like suddenly told you to cut off a close friend just to prove that you like him/her a lot, and you actually went along with it because you like this person a lot, then after you guys have started dating, this person tells you it's okay to keep talking to that friend that they had previously told you to cut off about things that bother you, then this person gets mad that you and your now ex-friend are going to the same MT, not even together or as friends.....don't you think you'd be at least a little fed up? Eun sung took all of this pretty well, and didn't seem to mind, but I can't help putting these situations into a real relationship in modern times, most people won't take it well, most people would be fed up, and they have every right to be. So, I guess what I'm saying is that I respect Eun sung's dedication to his girlfriend, I also feel like it stems from what he finds ideal in a girl, "someone who won't betray him, someone who won't judge him and someone who won't be disappointed in him", because of everything he saw in Sung eun that was his ideal, he probably also tried to become like someone who he would consider ideal.
That's just my take on all this anyway