yall know it’s super weird to be mad at the sunbae (cant remember his name sorry) because he didn’t want (or at least he’s not ready) to sleep with ho-in, right? he’s a closeted gay man who has little to no experience with other guys which was suddenly confessed to by a friend he thought was straight. if you are queer, you would know how fucking scary that is. we don’t have the luxury of not overthinking these kinds of situation: what if they’re just confused about their sexuality? what if they just want to test out if they are queer and aren’t really interested in me? what if they’re fucking with me? what if they would out me on other people? Let the sunbae fully understand what’s happening, let him fully understand his feelings for ho-in. ho-in’s feelings and clarity aren’t the only things important here, his (sunbae), too. it’s okay to take things slow. please give him a break.
it’s so weird when people think they have the right to be OFFENDED because a person refuses to sleep with another person. and even if the sunbae has feelings for ho-in, he is still allowed to refuse having sex with him.
i’d also like to add that i am not saying that straight people don’t have their worries or they’re not allowed to be skeptical about other people. however, they *aren’t* targeted because of their sexuality. saying this in advance before people come at me.
I don't think the sunbae not wanting to not sleep with Ho In was the biggest issue, it was how toxic and wishy washy he was with him. It felt like he was using Ho In as a rebound for his crush and that just felt shitty, ig. Just like how his feelings matter, so does Ho In's.
yall know it’s super weird to be mad at the sunbae (cant remember his name sorry) because he didn’t want (or at least he’s not ready) to sleep with ho-in, right? he’s a closeted gay man who has little to no experience with other guys which was suddenly confessed to by a friend he thought was straight. if you are queer, you would know how fucking scary that is. we don’t have the luxury of not overthinking these kinds of situation: what if they’re just confused about their sexuality? what if they just want to test out if they are queer and aren’t really interested in me? what if they’re fucking with me? what if they would out me on other people? Let the sunbae fully understand what’s happening, let him fully understand his feelings for ho-in. ho-in’s feelings and clarity aren’t the only things important here, his (sunbae), too. it’s okay to take things slow. please give him a break.