um... ma’am...

@unapologeticallyqueer May 14, 2021 3:48 pm

yall know it’s super weird to be mad at the sunbae (cant remember his name sorry) because he didn’t want (or at least he’s not ready) to sleep with ho-in, right? he’s a closeted gay man who has little to no experience with other guys which was suddenly confessed to by a friend he thought was straight. if you are queer, you would know how fucking scary that is. we don’t have the luxury of not overthinking these kinds of situation: what if they’re just confused about their sexuality? what if they just want to test out if they are queer and aren’t really interested in me? what if they’re fucking with me? what if they would out me on other people? Let the sunbae fully understand what’s happening, let him fully understand his feelings for ho-in. ho-in’s feelings and clarity aren’t the only things important here, his (sunbae), too. it’s okay to take things slow. please give him a break.

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    yema May 14, 2021 3:56 pm

    say it LOUDER for the people in the back

    @unapologeticallyqueer May 14, 2021 4:01 pm
    say it LOUDER for the people in the back yema

    it’s so weird when people think they have the right to be OFFENDED because a person refuses to sleep with another person. and even if the sunbae has feelings for ho-in, he is still allowed to refuse having sex with him.

    Hakken May 14, 2021 4:03 pm

    LOUDER BABY! MUAH!

    @unapologeticallyqueer May 14, 2021 4:13 pm

    i’d also like to add that i am not saying that straight people don’t have their worries or they’re not allowed to be skeptical about other people. however, they *aren’t* targeted because of their sexuality. saying this in advance before people come at me.

    Aimee May 14, 2021 5:58 pm

    People are actually mad at the sundae- I-

    bmark0406 May 14, 2021 6:08 pm

    HELL YES YOU DROPPED YOUR CROWN!

    @unapologeticallyqueer May 15, 2021 12:31 am
    People are actually mad at the sundae- I- Aimee

    SUNDAE—

    Aimee May 15, 2021 9:19 am

    Gotta have my ice cream sundae

    lenn May 15, 2021 5:41 pm

    meant to upvote sorry!

    @unapologeticallyqueer May 16, 2021 8:35 am
    meant to upvote sorry! lenn

    nah dont worry bout it!

    Irene May 7, 2025 6:07 pm

    I don't think the sunbae not wanting to not sleep with Ho In was the biggest issue, it was how toxic and wishy washy he was with him. It felt like he was using Ho In as a rebound for his crush and that just felt shitty, ig. Just like how his feelings matter, so does Ho In's.