heyy everyone has their own different ways of interpreting the novel. Good for you if you can accept it immediately but there are some people who will take lots of time to accept the fact that they are not outsiders. Also idk about you but the knowledge of the future, knowing that the guy(ML) who likes you is destined to be with someone else to be "saved", that you're not really the end game and you'll prolly be a "past time" gf, will haunt me throughout the duration that we're dating. We're deflect the things we know that will hurt us. I'll prolly experience impostor syndrome 24/7((which i know is toxic but still...) especially with my personality. So I can't blame the fls trying not to see the ml that way... i do understand it being boring as a trope tho but i think it's reasonable enough which is why it's an overused cliche. What I'm looking forward to is how the fl will get the assurance that she's worthy of the ml's love despite not being the "FL of the novel".
I agree. I am just too lazy to type a long reply so thank you very much ヾ(☆▽☆).
I also want to add that transmigrators know that there is an author of the novel, that it came form creative imagination of someone, it'll be really hard to just accept it, get attached, then get hurt if you suddenly wake up from it (aka got back on your real world).

No hate but I just don't get why some of reincarnated fls are so dense in terms of romantic feelings. Some of them even tried to push the ml away or tried to set up the ml to another woman, like tf are you doing? Can't you atleast accept the fact that he fell inlove for you and you feel the same way? Ghad this is making me feel so bored reading this kind of slow flow in their relationship. I want to drop names of some manhwa having these kind of fls but..... *sigh* nvm...
I want some bad ass bitch fl who's going to fight for what is rightfully hers.