omfg your one of those people that say "there's more important problems in this world." of course there are, that's why a lot of people do things to distract themselves, such as watching shows or reading bl. But when people come on here and see all this toxicity then what do they do? Why is it bad to want to call out this awful behaviour? istg It's not a crime to call people who defend rape out.
See how sad this is? You're saying people who call people out for defending rape should LEAVE the community. Wtf is wrong with you?
Why are people so pressed over you wishing Yahwi a happy birthday
If people like killing stalking, does it mean that they also support psychotic killers? Do people who like shounen that has lots of fighting support murderers? There are things that you cannot do in real life that is why fictional stories exist. And we know how to differentiate the two.
And then there's you who is being rude and toxic to real people who simply greeted a fictional character a happy birthday.
The manhwa is already in chapter 56 but you are still stuck in chapter 7. If there is someone who should be mad at Yahwi, it should be the so called victim who is Jooin but he's not. He is mad right now for a different reason. And why aren't you calling out Cain who sexually assaulted Jooin while he is sick and cannot consent, who always creeps on Jooin while he's asleep, hugging him and smelling him, he even bit his lip. When a foreign person whom you've only met once lied to you just so he can stay at your house, isn't that creepy? Even if we chat online, he is still practically stranger to me. You always slander Yahwi but when it comes to Cain, it's suddenly cute and romantic.
The original post is not even an argument but you started this.
No it's not bad you can call it out all you want and yes tf I am one of those people who say there are bigger problems in this world that a fictional story. I'm so sure you're the kind of person who doesn't care about what happens irl. And NO I am not saying that. Many BL stories have unfortunately romanticized, normalized r@pe and sexual assault and you're clearly a person who can't handle reading even further. You get mad over someone wishing a Character a happy birthday???
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Your comparing two different things. This is bl, it's romance. Rape shouldn't be normalized in this community at all but it is. Shounen to rape? Really? Why would you make this sort of comparison? In shounen there's a trope, there's fighting and killing, that's just how it is. THIS IS A BL. ROMANCE. It's not psychological or anything like that, so why is rape being fetishized in it? I don't understand the lengths you people go to defend this. And people are stuck on chapter 7 because there has been no consequences, you just see rape and cast it aside as if it's not a big deal when it is. It's gotten so bad that there are people like you going to such lengths to defend it. It's so sad, honestly.
I don't care what happens irl? Do you know how much I've been advocating for so many world problems as a minority myself? I've done my part for the irl issues, but when people want to call out bs they see in a community they can. It's sad that people like a character that raped someone just because he's hot. If we like stories like these and want to keep the community a good one why can't we? Is it not human decency to call out things that are wrong?
You expect me to dedicate all my time to serious world problems? Cause I know for damn sure you're not doing that. You literally said it yourself that rape is being normalized in this community. I hope that means you also realize how disgusting it is and sad it is. And if you do, then you shouldn't be mad at people trying to fix it. This isn't just yours to claim, it's love is an illusion, painter of the night, kiss me liar, etc. It's getting more and more normalized so people have a right to call it out.
Why do you think I put 'unfortunately' I know this is a big problem but literally nothing is changing even if people call it out. You said "You expect me to dedicate all my time to serious world problems?" You're literally spending time arguing on again a fictional character. I'm more worried about how women have to walk around with weapons just because they're afraid of men and so am I. And yes I agree that people have the right to call it out but are you fr starting an argument with someone over wishing a Character happy birthday? Also you don't care what happens irl? Dude are you even hearing yourself rn?
I agree with you that's it bad that people like these kinds of Characters but it's like what can you do yk? These people can't change their mentality fast. I wish this community was good too but it can't happen since we got the fetishizers, the toxics, and the r@pe in the stories
So you agree? That Cain did something wrong?
You know what this really is? FICTION. If you cannot separate fiction from reality then there is a problem with you. You do not have to change your mind but you have to accept that there are people who likes problematic characters. And liking a problematic character does not equate to liking a toxic person in real life. And if a person likes Yahwi solely because he's hot, what the hell is the problem with that? There are no rules in fiction that's why it's called fiction, not reality. You don't have to change your opinion but the least you can do is not attack people who greets a fictional character a happy birthday.
I’m not gonna argue with you about rape dude I don’t suppprt people fetishizing rape but if you know almost every bl has rape in it and if you feel uncomfortable then just stop reading it. I literally just prefer yahwi over cain
Where tf did I day Idc abt what happens irl? Are you dumb? Istg this is why you people can't be reasoned with. I can try to help fix world problems and call out bs online as well. Or can I not do that your majesty?
What you can dois call it out and hopefully more people see that it's wrong. You wanna just sit here while all these bad things are happening? It may not seem big to you but this is spreading and not just in the bl community. We have to try to stop it at least.
There is a huge problem with that. You may think that it isn't a big deal but you don't understand, this problem is spreading. This is becoming so normalized and it's being normalized outside of the bl community as well. It's not separating fiction from reality, this is reality. Go look at other stories that fetishize rape like this and see the comments. Everyone defends the rapist, EVERYONE. It's disgusting. And if it was just the fans then fine maybe, but it's not anymore, there's so much rape in so many bls how are we supposed to enjoy it? Or should we just forget abt the rape?
Your not going to argue because you know that it's wrong, and I, amongst others, have the right to call it out and try to better the community so we can enjoy it again. Isn't it sad that it's gotten so bad that you're saying I should stop reading bl because I don't like the idea of characters raping other characters and getting away with it?
Calling it as HUGE problem isn't going to help that much. You can't change people's mentality. I'm going to sit here and care more about the problems in the real world other than what's happening on stories because we can't really do much about it. Just call it out
Um NO. "This is reality" what. If you've seen how much toxicity is in the BL community and you can't stay away from those people then it's not the place for you. You can simply look for BLs that don't have sensitive topics while not involving yourself with that side of the community.
Pretty sure they just don't want to argue with an individual who gets mad about someone wishing a character happy birthday. And yup it's sad that they have to tell you that. BLs can have real life topics. I'm mad about it too but I will not in anyway attack someone for liking a certain Character that I don't like.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY YAHWI #teamyahwi